My fiancé and I had some time off we took a cruise in February, and one stops was at Disney World in Florida for the day.

When we returned my Fiancé was talking to his kids over the phone, and as usual BM had us on speaker so she can listen to ALL conversations between us and the kids. She always talks for the kids, answers for the kids, or contradicts what the kids say, for example. The kids are telling us about a school project, and she’s in the back ground “oh honey, that’s not what happened it happened like this.”

We feel we aren’t’ talking to the kids but talking to her which makes wanted phone conversations with the kids terrible because of her. It’s like she can’t stand her kids being excited to interact with anyone but her!
Well in this instance the kids were asking about the trip and good ol’ BM was in the back ground asking if it rained, “I bet it was hot” Making comments on everything! “ And tell him I remember when we went to Disney Land”, and did you do this blah blah blah. On and on. Always about her! The 7 yr old kept saying, “Mom I can’t hear Daddy, or can I go to my room please” Which she doesn’t allow them to talk to us in their room she makes sure she is present to listen. STALKER ALERT!

This woman left him for another man while he was active duty military when he was in IRAQ for goodness sake. It’s like she’s obsessed with him, and it drives me CRAZY! If he calls her phone to talk to the kids she’s always like “Honey, or Hon, or Baby to him” CRAZY! Why act like that if you left him? I left my ex husband and I sure don’t ask or comment on things when he is talking to our daughter. I don’t care! What’s wrong with her???