A few weeks ago dh and I git into b/c he thought I should make sure the house is spotless for his boys when they got here and they should clean anything since they weren't here.

Ok I get that to dome degree however it seems it doesn't apply to my kids. Dh just said today that since ds here we might as well use him. Meaning to help clean and get ready for Christmas since we are hosting.

Well his boys will be here tomorrow and I'm not cleaning today for one I don't feel so good and b/c his boys will be here and we might as well use them. Lol