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Dh confronted Yuck on the 'horrible thing' she said she has on us.

purpledaisies's picture

HE told her what ss16 said and that if she did say it that it was wrong and if not then ss16 is lieing. She tried t play dumb but dh reminder about the last time she pulled this and that maybe ss16 over heard her. (he was just trying to get her to say something) She didn't deny any of that and said well maybe he over heard it and changed the subject. Dh told her that if there is something that he is doing he needs to know to fix it. She went into this thing about how she didn't sign up to do this alone and blah blah blah. :sick:

Yea no one signs up to be a single parent but it is LIFE!! Rolling my eyes...

Then she went into how she knows that we have been married longer then they were and that she shouldn't be mad at him anymore but she is. (told you she hasn't moved on) She said she even talked to a pastor about it. um ok?

I told dh that every time she screams she has to do everything by herself and she is alone in this he needs to remind her that he is their dad and can and will help all she has to do is ASK! If he doesn't know she needs help he can't help! Dh said that he did that for a long time and he is tired of her yelling at him NO I CAN DO IT AND YOU DOING IT WILL NOT HAPPEN and hanging up. I told him to keep doing til she either shuts up or asks for his help! I know it is annoying but damn....

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purpledaisies's picture

I never thought of that one but I will say something to dh and see what he says. I know that I wouldn;t mind if the boys came here. I just wish that yuck would move on and get over it already so she can be the mom she should be.

purpledaisies's picture

True I do know from all the years I have been around her I know that dh could have been anybody and she would have done the same crap. Meaning she didn;t love him and only wanted the appearance of the 'happy family'. NO matter who she married or had kids with she would still be screaming that he left her to be a single mom and she has to do everything by herself and blah blah blah. Which is why ss16 bio dad signed over his rights. He didn;t want anything to do that her craziness.

purpledaisies's picture

I don't mind if we have them. Honestly I don;t they are good kids just need a good solid parent full time.

Auteur's picture

She's enjoying being the martyr (self imposed). Love the victimhood. She's probably teaching this to SS16.

purpledaisies's picture

Yep she is SOOO enjoying being the victim and I don't think the boys will fall into that trap they haven't so far and really called yuck on her crap a lot. At least I hope they don;t anyway. :O