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Dh told yuck about the disney trip.

purpledaisies's picture

She took it very well and will even let us pick them up 2 days early! however the only thing she said was that she is jealous that she can't afford that. Well if she would get a JOB she just might be able too!

But anyway this is all ME I am paying for it I have saved up for it from MY money and we will have at least 5k if not more! However dh told yuck that he is taking a 401k loan to do this just so that she doesn;t think he is making more as he isn't. Whatever dh it doesn't really matter, but oh well.

It just irates me that people won't get a job and expect others to foot their bill but then crys about someone else getting to do or buy things that they won;t! If she was to get a job she could afford better for the kids and do SO much more for them. I mean the youngest is 12 for goodness sake what is stopping her??? Oh wait according to her being a mom is a full time job and she can;t get a job even though the boys are in school every freaking day!

Sorry a little rant there but still why can't these POS moms not get that they have to work??? :sick:

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purpledaisies's picture

I know what you mean i get so tired of hearing how she doesn;t have the money for this or that and complaining about it. I also get tired of hearing how she is a single mom and gets no help! Please her aunt takes her kids EVERY weekend that dh doesn;t have them! So she only has her kids M-T in teh morn and evenings I mean they do go to bed! Then off to school on fri. that is it! Seriously, they are teens now and can take care of themselves for the most part.

She is always complaining about how busy she is and never has time to do anything b/c she is always running for the kids. Whatever NONE of the boys are in ANY sports or anything what does she have to do?? Why is she so busy??

Please don't talk to me about being busy as I have a full time job always have plus my dd was was a cheerleader along with numbours other things adding up to about 5 a year. Then my son had about 3 himself. then I never had an 'aunt' that took my kids every weekend or anyone else for that matter as their dad was never in the pic.

If she wants to know busy she should have had MY life! LOL

Ommy's picture

well she is the golden uterus. Everything has to be handed to them, haven't you learned anything? After all when you have kids it is WRONG to have a job. How will kids function without you always being home. :sick:

I think that it is crazy for people to insist that they cant work because of kids. Thousands of women do it everyday, and their kids dont turn out all messed up.

purpledaisies's picture

yep echo I couldn't agree more with that last paragraph! Don;t sit on your ass and cry 'victim' of sitting on your ass! No sympathy from me either! MAN that just pisses me off.

Even women that are strippers and the like get me sympathy as they have a 'job'! I know several strippers that they had no choice but they ARE supporting their kids and are not crying 'victim'! At least they are doing what they can instead of expecting others to pay for it!

purpledaisies's picture

For sure Riply! For sure! If she wants to know the true meaning of a single mom she should think of all those single parents that have a full time job and in school with NO ONE to help them with money or to take the kids! THAT was ME~!

She is truly blessed to have dh and her aunt to help her with those kids anytime she needs it!

i remember that when I was sick I had to still take care of my kids and do EVERYTHING that needed to be done. So much so that it landed me in the hospital when they were still babies b/c I was sick and still went to school and work to point I passed out at school. But when she was sick this past week we kept the boys for her. which was fine I am not complaining about that but the fact that she complains about being a single mom with no help! Pisses me the hell off!