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Submitted by purpledaisies on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 4:59pm

Bm went from trying to keep the kids away to wanting to get rid of them. I have noticed over the years that Yuck gradually has let go and has now been asking us to take them even in her days.

Anyone gone through that. I mean she was so mean and nasty and even hid the kids to now asking us to take them all the time. Just seems weird to go from saying anything she could and accuse ud of anything she could and calling the police and dhs on us. To wanting us to take them all the time. I guess I was just thinking about it and if you really think your miss are in danger like she accused us off then you wouldn't try to get the same people to take your kids more and more. Right ?

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 5:11pm

I hope I NEVER have to go through that. BM has stepdevil14 full time now and is going after 100% custody. I was half tempted to tell DH to just fucking LET her have her...but then we'd be paying out the nose for CS and medical. He's fighting for 60/40 even if the kid never comes over again so at least he has that OPTION to enforce visitation.

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 6:13pm

Oh yeah sounds familiar. Once dh got custody of SD15 (at the time) the visitation for the one left behind was always scheduled way in advance. But when she had them both and he would email we would get an email as little as 18 hours prior to needing to be picked up at the airport.

Calling hubby all chatty cathy sending him pics of all of them when sd went down for visitation. This is the same women that ripped them out of a store for attempting to say hello to their dad and i. I told him beware.

Now she is getting ready to screw him out of visitation with sd14 wanna bet?

Their nice when its convenient for them, she sounds like she is getting laid...boyfriend on the horizon?

My other theory is if their not happy noone else can be, so when their happy its all peachy

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 7:37pm

Funny you should mention a bf as dh said the other day "its hard to get laid with teen boys around" lol

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 7:59pm

How could u miss that? Believe me she is not willingly giving u guys time, your her babysitter. Been here done this and shut that down when we told her no we had plansand couldnt do it and stop taking them on her every whim

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Submitted by 20 plus on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 8:21pm

BM would hide for weeks with SKIDS. She just up and dumped them on us one day. No warning or discussion, just said not to bring them back after finally finding them and taking for a CO visit. She often told them not to listen to me I wasn't their mother and if it wasn't for me she would be living with skids and DH.

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Submitted by Scratching My H... on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 10:23pm

Custody is a 4-letter word. Man do I regret helping DH get full custody. In hindsight, would gladly double the child support!

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Submitted by fedup13 on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 11:10pm

I so agree wth you. I have not helped Dh attempt to get custody, I have in fact, just tonight straight up told him that if he gets custody I will not be able to live with him, but I agree with Custody being a four letter word after the damn day I have had, and if we had the money, wow, you can best believe I would glady give that greedy BM bitch double CS just to keep skid out of my home as much as humanly possible.

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Submitted by Scratching My H... on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 11:07pm

I have your life. During a heinous & COSTLY custody battle, BM also called the cops on us weekly & Children's services investigated us. Well an arrest (hers), 2 restraining orders (ours), $2000 surveillance cameras, security system, cops now calling us if we're ok & Children's services redflagging her, we are now the proud parents of a messed up teen that shows his appreciation by lying, disrespecting us & continues his life long goals of marathon napping. His pitbull of a mother doesn't even have the decency to take him off our hands for an afternoon visit. I am so glad I found out just how optimistic, gullible & blindingly stupid I can be. Next time I'll just fight for full custody at an animal shelter.

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Submitted by fedup13 on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 11:15pm

Wow Scratching...I think your DH's ex and my Dh's ex must have gone to the same, How to be a worthless, greedy, and fraudulent BM school. Seriously. we have spent thousands upon thousands this year alone because of this bitch. She did the things you described, and then some. I have never posted it in a blog because she is a SM and if I was able to find this site with one search on google, she could too, and oh the heinous stories I could tell. I have shared privately with some ladies here that I trust, just can't take the risk of her finding me on here, seeing as how I am in the process of suing her for everything but her dirty underwear.

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Submitted by Scratching My H... on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 11:45pm

You saved yourself! I'm so happy to hear when a SM dodges another bullet. May your puppy always give you joy & love & may it never talk back to you & pee all over your life Smile

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Submitted by Scratching My H... on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 11:22pm

Sue her for her dirty underwear too! We need to know what her genetic makeup is that makes for powerful chemistry so we can help find a cure for all these fertile men out there. We can have fundraising marathons, our logo will be a pink condom.