Dh did call her tonight b/c he wanted to get it over with instead of waiting til thanksgiving. he didn't want any tension for that day. He pretty much told her that it was our choice not to go and that we enjoy being with each other on Sun. as that is the only day we really get as he works most sat. and I work nights Tue. - Sat. She seemed to be ok with that. Thanks ladies as I wouldn't have thought to tell dh to say what stepaside said.
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