I am still upset with her for not telling me about my biodad. But I kept it away from her just to keep the peace and things had been goin good til Christmas.
I didn't say anything to her but I so wanted too.
So I was cooking and mom mentions that my aunt her oldest sister (not my crazy aunt the sane one) said she knows how I feel b/c she found my grandpa is not her dad when she was 9 and from a realitive not grandma. She was more or less saying that realities shouldn't be getting in the middle. Now I do agree however mom said that she was upset b/c how does the realitive know that the parents aren't going to tell the child and it isn't their place b/c mom still could have told me. But I find that to not apply to me b/c I'm almost 40! Sorry but I think it is safe to say mom wasn't going tell me!
That is what I wanted to scream at her when she told me this. There is a big difference in a 9 year old child and a 39 year old adult! Is there not?

I would like to let this go but i just cant seem to get past that if my crazy aunt hadn't said anything mom would have taken this to her grave. Plus I had to pry it out of her. I also know that my brother and dad begged her to tell me before I found out through someone else but nope.

This is the issue I have with her.