my step MIL is coming to our house!
We have been married for over 8 years and we have been to their house at least 10 or more times. They live 8 hours away. They have NEVER been to our house ever! Well dh got a call from his dad asking if step MIL an borrow a travel bird cage (we have 2 big birds and he knows we have one). The reason is b/c step mil needs one to help her brother move as he a a big bird.
Dh said that is fine but we can meet some where as I really want you to come too and you both can come see our home. Dh let him know that he thinks that it is wrong to come to our house which they have never been to in over 8 years just b/c she wants something. Dh said he just wanted them to come to just see us without wanting something. The only reason she will be coming is b/c she wants something and dh felt like she didn't want to come see us to just come see us.
Now I must say that this woman is the type to get her fee fees hurt b/c we went to dinner an did not invite her. First it wasn't planned and second she said she was tired and was going to bed.
So anyway fil said he will not tell her that as it will piss her off and that she will be here on thrus to look for her. Am I wrong to think that she just taking here and she really doesn't care about us?
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No his dad will not be with
No his dad will not be with sm. Sm is only coming here to borrow something. Other than that sm ignores us. His dad is a good guy he just never comes to visit us. the only times we have ever visited with his is if WE do it so it seems very one sided. Dh told his dad that he wanted them BOTH to come and not to come only to borrow something. his dad said too bad sm will be there thurs. and that was the end of it.
I think it is wrong for anyone to just say too bad this is what will happen b/c one person is way to sensitive and this is OUR HOUSE. It is wrong of his dad to tell us what will happen in our house. It boils down to the fact that sm has always gotten her way and if not she throws a fit I have seen it.
The main this is that his dad and sm have went and seen all the kids in other states but have never visited us even after being invited a lot. Dh wants a relationship with both of them he is just tired of always having to go to them and feeling like it is one sided but then the one time that they reaching out is only to borrow something so that really isn't reaching out.