What hell of a weekend!

Dh had the kids this weekend but when he got there to pick them up bm announced that ss15 had to stay home for football. She told him he could pick him up on sat. when it was over. Dh told her he could take him to his football thing, bm refused like normal.

So sat came and I needed to go to town for a few things, bm called and said dh can get ss15 only that she refuses to met us any where b/c she is sick. However she said he needed to hurry b/c she was going to the hospital to see her friend. Dh asked her if she is too sick to meet us then why go to the hospital and make them sick. She said she is on the rag and she will not run all over the place. I told dh that I and wiling to meet her in town but not 2 towns over where she wants us too. Where we were was more than half way to her house. More then reasonable. Just b/c she is on the rag does not make her special. Plus I told him that not too long ago dh was sick so sick that he running a fever and throwing up and she still refused to come to get the kids and we had to meet her where she said! I am done doing favors for this woman.

Dh and I got into really bad over this. I told him fine then drop me off at the store I want to go and you pick him up. He didn't want to do that. Him and bm got into a huge fight. Then she wanted to know why we were in town. Dh told her it was none of her business. She then said that everything is her business. I was joking with dh and told him to tell her that since everything is her business that we had sex last night and he can give details if she wanted. He then told her that!!! She of course got mad and said she didn't need to hear that and thought he was more mature then that. He then reminded her that everything is her business! She didn't like that too much. It really was funny.

So anyway she refused to meet us anywhere and refused to let dh have ss15.

B/c of this dh told bm that he is no longer going to her house to pick the boys up but there will meet half way from now on (which is what I have been trying to get him to do b/c bm seems to thing we should do all the driving).

To my surprise she agreed to meet half way. I wonder of the little sex comment put it in way for her that let her know very clearly that she is not part of life! I don't know however I took a pic of her at pick up. LOL I only did that b/c she keeps making comments about how ugly I am and that she beautiful and can't understand why dh left her. This way I can show my friends and family, no posting it.

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LMAO! I can just imagine BMs

LMAO! I can just imagine BMs face after being informed of your business!
I'd love to know why some women think that being menstrual is a reason to be lazy. It's not a suden sickness, you know its coming every month, plan ahead. And if shes so "sick" why wouldnt she jump at the oppertunity not to take skid to football?
Good luck with planning in the furture for meeting halfway- hope you dont have to deal with waiting for hours.

I refuse to put up with that.

I refuse to put up with that. If she is not there on time we will leave. However it is not really in her nature to do so b/c she is all about appearances and to be late to pick the kids up will look really bad on her as a mother!

Anyway I told dh I that was done with picking the boys up when and where at her convenience. So if he wants to do that he can but I better drop me off where ever I want and pick me up when I am ready! He didn't like that too much. Which is why he told bm no he will not be picking them up at her convenience anymore and that it will be at this location at this time every time!

I was willing to work with her and meet her in town instead of making her drop him off at our house which is what she should have done since she refused to let dh take him to football. But I was NOT wiling to do it her way at her convenience especially since I had things I needed to do and I wasn't going to ruin my plans! Just b/c bm is on the rag! :sick:

He chose to stay with his mom

He chose to stay with his mom after all that b/c they were fighting ALL day b/c bm REFUSED to meet any where other than her house!

I think ss was just tired of the bs and he knew that he would pay for it from his mom if he choose to come with us since she was pissed that things didn't go her way aka at her convenience.

document, document, document

document, document, document then take her to court & Kick Ass.

only trouble with that is

only trouble with that is that bm had nit taken dh back for an increase in CS since they have been divorced. Which means that according to the cs calculator he should be paying at least $100 more a week. However dh wants to leave it alone unless she asks for an increase.

But for now this will work for me b/c I refuse to have someone else dictate how I spend my weekends! That is something I hate more than anything is for someone to demand that I go out of my way and never return the favor. This is an on going problem every time dh has his kids. She seems to think that she is the most important thing in the world and we should accommodate her no matter what it is and she seems to think she should know all our plans and why we go any where or what spend money on.

The thing is that we NEVER tell her any of our plans ever or why nor what we spend our money on, so why does she keep asking??? :?

Had another thought about

Had another thought about this. Do you ladies and gents think that the comment about our sex life was stooping to her level? I mean it really was a joke from me and dh texted it. i am just wondering b/c I try so hard to not be at her level. She just pissed me off so bad with her thinking she has the right to know our business. I mean it wasn't like I was hiding anything. Who really thinks that everything is their business???