So FDH goes to pick up the boys for 4 of his 28 hours of the week visit (luckily the Harpee recently pulled her head out and agreed to more time- so that will change soon)

FDH expressed his displeasure at
a. being given less than 4 hours notice that the boys had a baseball game and
b. that the boys were obligated to an activity without his consent during his very limited visitation time.

Its not that he doesn't want the kids doing activities, its that she loads up all of this crap for them to do and then tries to keep the boys away from him unless she needs something and doesn't give a f#$& about his relationship with them- she is also a PASer.

She gets all pissy with him, he says whatev, I will do what I want with the boys on my time, you can handle what happens on your time...
and starts to leave (not great of him, I know)

She GRABS THE DOOR HANDLE of his truck and yanks the door open to try to yell at him in front of the boys! He shuts and locks the door, and she proceeds to yell at him as he drives away.

This is the SECOND time that she has tried to physically restrain him from leaving with the boys... both times were in front of the kids.

Its going to be a long 21+ years......