I don't really have contact with BM#1 since those skids are 18 and 21. BM#2 ditches SS now 9 at 3 weeks on FMIL and then walked out on FDH and SS when SS was 3 yrs old. She is supposed to have every other week custody and she never took it til last week. I'm very pissed off that all of a sudden the woman that couldn't be bothered to make every other weekend and once went over six months without seeing this kid now wants every other week. He comes home a monster and I have enough problems from him as it is. I quit work to take care of him and she us going to leave him with her child hating girlfriend who sleeps all day and makes him stay in the basement so she can sleep. The girlfriend works nights so I get some of it.

I hate BM#2 so much that it seems like all FDH and I do is fight. I feel physically ill when drop off and pick up time comes. I take my anger over this intrusive bitch out on everyone around me and its ruining all of our lives. How do you deal with this shit?