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Drama surrounds this ffffing kid!

RedWingsFan's picture

DH gets home from his visit with SD14 last night. He says "SD says the school pulled her out of class and told her that I've been calling some lady at the school non-stop for days and to tell me to stop calling her". He said the school office showed her a phone number written down and asked if it were his and she confirmed it was. Then sent her back to class and said to have your dad stop calling this lady at the school.

Strange right? Neither of us could wrap our heads around as to WHY they would pull a student out of class and tell her to tell her dad to stop calling someone at the school. When he asked her WHO it was he was supposedly calling repeatedly, she said "they wouldn't tell me that". He doesn't even have the school's number programmed into his phone!

So hubby stops by her school this morning. Apparently, SD14 is just trying to start drama again and doesn't fucking listen, twisting words around to whatever she fucking wants to hear! They said "we seem to have your phone number in our database wrong, because when SD is absent from school, we call both parents and the number we have for you belongs to someone else who has requested that we stop calling her". Apparently, they had his number wrong by ONE digit (had SD actually paid attention to it when they showed her the number, she would've known it was off by one digit).

They pulled SD out of class to verify the number and said to ASK her father if HE had been GETTING their calls when she's absent. Ok, so she turned that into "Tell your father to STOP calling some lady at the school incessantly"??????????

I swear to God, this kid is as bright as night. She fucking pisses me off with this shit. You can't tell her ANYTHING because she twists shit around and it becomes something totally different. I've tried teaching her mirroring techniques and force her to repeat every single thing I say to her so I'm sure she has it right. Then she runs back to her mother and says something TOTALLY off the charts just to start shit.

FED THE FUCK UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When DH called me after he left the school, he said "my daughter doesn't listen for shit" and I said, "not only that but what she does hear is simply what she fucking makes up in her head"! Does she get "talked to" over this stuff? Nope. It's simply labeled a "misunderstanding". Well, what happens when she "misunderstands" something extremely important????? Stupid!

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RedWingsFan's picture

He tells me she's ALWAYS been this way but he'll "work on that" with her. Yeah right. Just another reason I can't trust this kid. She understands things JUST FINE thank you very much, she just likes to twist shit around to get a rise out of people and cause drama that otherwise wouldn't be there.

She knew her dad would get fired up about them pulling her out of class and saying things like that. They probably DIDN'T even pull her out of class at all! He never asked.

Either way, I just had to vent because whenever I talk to him about it I get "well, I'll talk to her about this" and NOTHING ever changes.

ctnmom's picture

Redwing, out of any of the stepshits on this site, I think I'd want yours the least. And you know what? She knows exactly what she's doing, I bet you. I mean, I don't care how secure you are in your marriage, who wants to hear that their DH is cell phone bombing another woman? She's a piece of work. She "twisted" or "misunderstood"(lied) that way for a reason.

RedWingsFan's picture

Oh I know she knows what she's doing. Very much so. That little manipulative shit knows EXACTLY what she's doing at all times and plays it off as "misunderstanding" people. Fuck that. I made her repeat verbatim something I said to her and she rattled it off without missing a beat, right in front of DH. So when these things come up I bring that up to him and all he can say is "I'll work with her on this, it's ALWAYS been an issue for her".

OMG I just am so over her. If mine and DH's relationship weren't absolutely perfect, I'd have RUN a long time ago, far, far away. She can pull this shit with her parents, but I see clearly through her as if she were transparent.