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So my mil got married yesterday and my husband and i decided not to go for various reasons. mostly because mil continuously bashes me and takes bm side. well I received a call from her today, actually it was my ss5 on the phone to wish me a happy mothers day. Complete surprise because a week ago they told me that he was not part of my family and that I was not part of his life. I have been here since he was born. So I lost it and started crying because I miss him like crazy and was extremely happy to hear from him. Then mil got on the phone and I told her happy mothers day and took my husband the phone. She then asked if she could send us pictures of the wedding. He said to send them to my phone cause well his screen is messed up and you can hardly see anything on it. Which is true. So she did. What did she send pictures of bm, bm boyfriend, and bm mother. Really how many times are you going to slap me in the face. Not only that but your sons also. To me with her actions and then sending me and her son these picture, of all the pictures she could have sent of her wedding, she is telling us that she has her family and it does not include us. It hurts me not because I give a rats tushy but because this is my husbands mother and I love him and I dont want to see him hurt. And whether he says it or not I have been with him long enough to read it on him face that it does bother him and it does hurt him. Just irritated and I my be over reacting because im 7 month pregnant but I hate to see my family hurt. I dont need advice really just venting.