Well, SD16 gets the restrictions lifted from her intermediate license on March 21st. SD16 has been on us about getting her a car. Well, with only dh working, we can barely afford to maintain the 2 vehicles we have. So we told sd16, get a job to help pay for gas, insurance, and regular maintenance of a car, then we'll talk about giving you mom's(my car) because my mom is giving me her minivan. SD16 has yet to get a part-time job. Because bm is telling sd16 that since sd16 only has 1 year of high school left, sd16 shouldn't spend part of it working part-time just to be able to drive & have a car.(Umm, hello...it's called responsibility.) Well, since sd16 hasn't gotten a part-time job yet, we haven't given her my car. So on Sunday, bm told sd16 that bm & bm's bf were talking about giving sd16 bf's truck. That's fine, but sd16 still needs to get a part-time job to help with the expense of owning a car. Now here's the LMFAO part. SD16 lives with dh, myself, & bs12 in Oklahoma, while bm & bm's bf live in PA. After bm told sd16 they were thinking about giving sd16 the truck, bm's next statement was...."but we're not sure if we're gonna sign the title over to you." When sd16 told me that, I about died laughing. I looked at sd16 and said "ok so they are going to give you a truck that after 30 days you will no longer be able to drive." SD16 says "what do you mean?" I replied "we live in Oklahoma, they live in PA, the truck is tagged in PA, you have 30 days to transfer the tag from PA to OK if they give it to you, if you don't you can't drive it. And if they bf's name on it, you can't change the tag." SD16 "oh, bm & I never thought about that. I'll have to tell bm that the title has to be transferred to me or dad if they are gonna give it to me." I LMFAO at how stupid bm was showing that she actually is. Anyone and everyone knows that when you get a vehicle it has to be tagged in the state you live in to drive it. Oklahoma gives you 30 days to transfer the out-of-state tag to an Oklahoma tag. BM just can't give sd16 the truck, leave it in the bf's name and expect sd16 to be able to get it tagged with an Oklahoma plate and drive. LMFAO!!