Maybe she doesn't find his personality attractive.

OMG!

BM left BF for some dude that she met on the internet. He told her how rich and successful he was (he was a wanted fugitive and is serving 20yrs right now).

Anyway, he was the same age, and looked like an ugly version of BF. Names were even similar.

She did! Right after DH left her, she took on a new boyfriend who looked similar to DH. This was before DH and I started dating, and she still tries to pay the victim card like I'm the only reason he isn't with her.

BM didn't, but I did. All of the guys I've been in a relationship with have looked alike. Some people have a "type" when it comes tothis stuff and I'm one of them.

As a BM myself who has to deal with the worthless, dead-bead father of my bio-son.... I would NEVER in a million years date anyone that looks like him! Not so much because of the way he physically looks... he's actually very handsome.... but because of his personality... I could not ever look at someone who looked like him and not vomit!

I have always dated VERY different types, all different backgrounds.... I have not one 'type' whatsoever.

This is too funny.... the first guy BM dated could have been DH's twin! Then the guy she married couldn't be more different! DH is tall, full head of dark hair... her guy now is short, bald, and FAT FAT FAT!!!

I agree with Anon, I also have some similarities in guys... my #1 requirement is facial hair... lol

My husband is an attractive guy. He still can't believe that he is so good looking, even though I tell him all of the time. I guess he thinks that BM didn't find him attractive because she wasn't into sex. She would even accuse him of being a sex addict. And get this, the woman is a troll!!! I kid you not, she is a fat ass troll. I am the anti-her. When she did manage to get a man, my hubby said that he was an fugly old man. I told hm that of course he was, look at her, who would want her. Come on now, not only is she a troll but she has a bad personailty as well!!!

Of course she calls my husband all of the time, not only is he a sweet guy, but he is handsome as well. He just couldn't stand her fugly fat troll ass!!!

Wingnut has only dated one person since the split. He didn't look anything like dh, BUT he was similar in that he was a doormat (dh was too for 18 of their 20 year marriage). You could tell my his mannerisms that he had no self-esteem. He followed her around like a puppy dog. I think he was more an errand boy than anything else. That's how she likes them, no self-esteem so she can convince them that they are nothing without her and they should be grateful for how badly she treats them simply because she is the only one who will be with them. So sad. I am glad he isn't with her anymore because he seemed okay and she was mean to him. I think she dumped him because he told the custody evaluator that SD through temper tantrums all the time and Wingnut couldn't handle her. He told the doctor this DESPITE the fact that Wingnut tried to convince the doc that SD only through tantrums on days she had to see dh because she was afraid of him.

"God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy" and you can't change crazy!!

Well, our BM isn't selective at all. She's the kind of girl guys will take home while wearing their "beer goggles" (ya know, the girls all get prettier at closing time!). She won't find another like my FH. I think she thinks she's just waiting around for me to leave so she can have THE REAL DEAL back.

HA- OVER MY DEAD BODY!!!

**my stepdaughters did not grow in my tummy, they grew in my heart**

Wow, interesting..All the men I dated were completely different in looks but basicly the same type personality. Some just more loving, very few differences but all traits I loved..I genuienly go for good looks & personality, mostly the later..
Two, FH and My Dearest Emery ( deceased 4 yrs)..Looked NOTHING a like , but twin personalities, I loved them both,
I never realized how hard that was....or ever thought that was possible...but it was, with me....Then choosing one from the other...God , made the choice for me.
But I had thought If I lived in Utah LOL I would have loved to have Kept them Both,I think I could have become a poligimist (sp) If the tables were turned and women were able to practice poligomy would you have more than one husband???? LMAOOO I might have considered it..If I were the Boss and they were my..hmmm...slaves...

All I can say is that a friend of mine saw a picture of my bf and said he actually looks like a man. She said my x looked like an overgrown fat kid (picture of him in his scout leaders uniform of all things) >:)

**I only have one shot at a truly great life and not one spent waiting for a man to notice me, want me, love me and be true to only me. 2010 is the year of "me" **

HAHHA! FUNNY YOU MENTION THIS... THE BM IN OUR LIFE DATED MY HUSBANDS BROTHER! THE LOOK SO MUCH ALIKE THEY GET ASKED IF THEY ARE TWINS ALL THE TIME...LOL..

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Pretty much everyone I know says my exH is super hot. I thought so when I first met him. But I am so over him that I don't find him attractive physically anymore. I just don't see it. It ran its course and now I don't find him attractive at all!

"I child proofed my whole house, but they STILL get in!"

The troll could look for someone as attractive as my hubby, but she will never find one!!!

Our BM married a man we call "no chin", his neck goes to his lower lip! Nasty! But she has since separated from him and sent an email to my FH telling how she lost a "diamond in the rough" when she left him. FH threw up a little uh his mouth when he read that!

BM degraded my FH, he had very little self esteem & no confidence in him self. My FH is a handsome man, I tell him daily! Its taken 2 years, but I've been able to build is self esteem & confidence back up! He's a wonderful man!

When I met BM, she was a bleached blonde, now, her hair is as dark as mine, deep brown, she's changing herself trying to look like me! Good luck ! I weigh 140, she's every ounce of 240!

Whack job is what we deal with!

DH's ex wife's boyfriend before DH and DH look alike. Her last boyfriend looked completely different. Now she is dating the boyfriend before DH again. Some people just have a type.

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

Not our BM. MY husband is a 6ft tall Italian guy, her husband (soon to be ex) is a 5 ft 9 black guy. So she went completely opposite lol.

My husband on the other hand, is the guilty party. He has a thing for tanned girls (mixed, light skinned black, latina, greek, etc) and BM and I have VERY SIMILAR features. We are both very thin, mixed, have long dark curly hair, and have about the same caramel skin complexion.

Go figure. He definitely sticks to his type.

~*~When you kiss ass, your breath smells like sh*t~*~