Kids were here again this weekend.  I'll remind you....2 girls, ages 15 and 18.  One boy, age 13.

Ever since the oldest turned 18 DH has told her ay least two dozen times what an adult she is.  She is the farthest thing from it.  She cannot do or think about two things at once.  She has no ambition.  No driver's license, no job. Two times now she's told her dad 45 minutes before she needs to be somewhere.  When asked why she doesn't tell him more ahead of time, her cop out is "I don't know". I call BS!! It is because she's not held accountable and not pushed to do shit!!

Then there is the step son.  He's failing all his core classes.  Took over three months to go meet with the teachers.  In the mesntime he  "ryns away".  I think he got caight fooling around st the arcade, forgetting it wss a 1/2 day at school when he faked his illness.  In any case, if it is a cry for help, why is DH and his ex not getting it for him?  I ssk my DH...same anseet, I don't know.

The .middle child walks around like a zombie.  She got what she wanted for Christmas, her iPhone, now her dad is useless to het.  She does mot say anything to anyone.  Either on her phone or playing video games.  She comes put when she is hungry. 

I get so frustrated and I say things occassionally then DH gets hurt.  I'm at my wits end...ready to take my drastic action on my end.