Wow! I must be a psychic!!!!

I know this will be so hard for you all to believe but.....BM just called SO to inform him that SD's injury is more severe than they thought (yet again) and she will need at least 4 more weeks of PT (that puts her ending the week after our wedding) and she may need surgery! It is amazing that I somehow predicted this weeks ago!

Oh and now of course SO is such a POS dad for not believing SD is hurt so badly and my family is a terrible family and SD struggles to fit in b/c they made fun of her injury and don't believe her. Imagine that. My family is horrible for not fawning all over her fake injury and I'm so awful for calling her out while she was LYING to my family telling them she had a torn meniscus when she has a sprain! He is also so awful for not making SD the center of the universe and placing her above me and my family.

Supposedly SD doesn't want to come over anymore b/c she is so uncomfortable around my family. Huh, she was just fine with them when she was collecting all the extra Christmas presents! Hmmm! Weird!

I am actually proud of SO. He stood up to BM and SD. We normally try to keep SD out of this but he just told her that if she wanted to be a part of his life than fine but he isn't putting up with the drama anymore and he will not force her to be around our family if it makes her so uncomfortable. She acted as if it was all on her mom and she had nothing to do with it but her mom wouldn't have the information she went off about if SD didn't twist stuff and report to her. SO made that clear to SD also. He told her, "your mom gets her info from you and I've had way more knee injuries than I care to count but they could always be found especially after an MRI and I currently have a partial tear in my MCL but I work through it and stretch and work out. You sit around and keep eating candy and not working it out. And you get mad telling your mom you don't even want to come around Simpleton's family anymore b/c they joke with you mainly b/c you lied to their faces. I am done with all the BS. I try my hardest for you and will always be there for you but I am sick and tired of the treatment I get in return like I don't care or matter. I am done with it."

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What exactly is she going to

What exactly is she going to have surgery on? I mean is it exploratory surgery since they can't find anything?

LOL, exactly! I have no idea

LOL, exactly! I have no idea! I told SO that he needs to call the dr and get the records and stop listening to what BM claims. He can't make it to the appts b/c of work schedule but he can certainly get the records and express his concern of faking/exaggerating injuries to the dr.

Good for him. Has he ever

Good for him. Has he ever requested medical info for himself? It would be interesting to see it.

That is exactly what I told

That is exactly what I told him to do. I told him to get the dr information and I will gladly pay for him to get the records to review and he should call the dr. You know so he isn't the POS parent...show his concern as well as show her dr his concern for her diet and her exaggeration of the injuries.....

SIGH

Sounds like the expected pre wedding drama has begun. Play it smart, get married without any skids involved, you already know SD will pull something (no pun intended).

LMAO, oh I knew she would

LMAO, oh I knew she would pull something. That is why I decided to not have any kid involvement. I have also decided that I will have assign a friend to deal with her. If she starts her crap she will be escorted home to mommy.

Thats awesome you predicted

Thats awesome you predicted that. My DH thinks Im psychic. He doesnt understand how predictable pateerns of behavior are.

I predicted all of it. I

I predicted all of it. I predicted the injury before the end of cheer and it lasting through Christmas and then somehow extending past my wedding now. Funny b/c the week before Christmas she supposedly was going to be off the crutch after Christmas but now it is so much worse and will be better the week after my wedding. It is so transparent to EVERYONE in this case....except BM and her parents I guess. BM and her parents are also much better role models than we are according to BM, lol! This coming from the woman on her 2nd live in BF since I have known her. She is all high and mighty with her revolving door of live in bfs. I'm the only woman SO has lived with and introduced SD to since they divorced.

Can not have her at the wedding

Wedding are just the worst place for accidents. She could be injured for life with CS. For life. Then will be force to sit on her butt and eat for the rest of her life. Seriously you know she is going to screw up the wedding. Butter be at falt with her not there. The be at fault with her there

This is so true! I will let

This is so true! I will let SO know that for SD's safety and since we are soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo concerned for her that she shouldn't be there the entire time and should probably be seated the whole time as well.

Since you guys posed the good question of what she will possibly have surgery on since there is no tear/problem per MRI I asked SO. He advised that they are saying the injury might be "hidden/undetectable" same as the last injury when she had a supposed break that was "hidden/undetectable" so they are doing 4 more weeks of PT.

I also asked if he got the dr name and number yet to get the records....shocker....BM quit texting him when he asked for that information!

I'm guessing hidden

I'm guessing hidden/undetectable is doctor speak for "There is nothing there physically! Mentally we can't fix this patient, so physical therapy!"

Exactly! Gee, wonder why BM

Exactly! Gee, wonder why BM hasn't given us the dr name/info yet?!?! Is she maybe worried that we might express concern to the dr that SD is indeed faking and has a mental issue and not an injury!!!!! How many hidden/undetectable injuries can 1 person have?!?!