DH hasn't heard from baby mommas boy age 21 since January. Last mo he rec'd a communication from assidiots alimony atty telling dh that skid needs some money for college tuition. we refuse to respond. First of all, we're not spending money on an atty to respond to something so absurd. Second the court order is clear as glass because bm wrote it in - if any kid disparages, disrespects, ignores or refuses to acknowledge his parent, said child gets no college help. WE don't even know where he lives or if he's even in school. next court date to discuss alimony with the idiotasshat is in october.