So DH is out of town working, 4 hours from us, so he's staying there during the week. And coming home on the weekends if he can. The weekends he can't make it home, he's asked me and our baby to come up and stay with him, which we have.

Anyways, BM apparently calls DH and tells him that SHE is receiving calls looking for "SM previous name" and to let me know they are calling her ALOT.

First off, how would they associate BM and ME, we have never lived in the same town, or the same house. Secondly, they are calling BM asking for me with my previous last name, I dont buy it. I think MIL told BM that she was receiving calls because I used her address previously while our house was being built. So now BM is calling saying that she is getting calls.

I told MIL how to handle this people, they are just old collectors looking for me for my exH. Just tell them "wrong number".

Anyways, BM says she tells these people that "sm oldname" is her exH's new wife. Really, wth, so you want them to keep calling you. If you were so bothered by this you would have said I don't know her, wrong number or the similiar.

I still think that BM is making this up. I blocked her around thanksgiving, she can't call or text me and I think she's figured that out. F HER!!!

If you don't want anyone to think we may be related Jabba-the-slut, change your last name back to your ACTUAL last name, not your ex-H's. And I don't want to hear the excuse she is keeping it for the kids, because she had a baby out of wedlock that has another last name than her and his kids.

These BM's are a piece of work. I am staying clear of MIL/FIL and BM, plus any of DH's so called friends, they are bunch of idiots.