We sent BM a part of the proposal to find her reasoning on why she does not want what BF wants. We sent it on Wed and still no answer from her. But we sent her 2 emails this evening one to tell her BF found her van title and would mail it tomorrow and the other to ask if baby come come to a birthday dinner for his grandpa. She repsonded to both within an hour but no word on the Wed note. UGH! Why can't she just be reasonable and cooperate like she agreed in the divorce decree. I am sure if she would just respond BF and BM could come to a amicable solution without spending thousands of dollars on mediatiors or attorney fees. I know there are some things they will never agree on like custody. BF wants joint and BM wants sole. That will have to be decided in mediation or by the court. Her obvious lack of cooperation and interest will not go well with the judge or a mediator.

Any words of wisdom or advise on how to handle all of this and maybe light a fire under BM's butt.