If you read my post yesterday you know all about BM's G-ma trying to pick up SD and DH and I not being able to reach BM to see what's up. So She just shows up early this morning, ringing our doorbell repeatedly. As soon as DH opened the door she started in on him about how her G-ma has every right to pick up SD, talking a hundred miles a minute. DH asked her to remember what happend the last time G-ma was supposedly taking SD to spend the night with her at her house, (G-ma decided to disobey the court order that SD is not allowed at BM's abusive mother's house and they spent the night there instead.) BM of course, refused to talk about that, and insisted on taking SD immediately. I feel so bad for SD!! That poor baby is only 3 and having to ride out her irrational mother's mood swings! I guess that is one thing most all children of people on this site share in common.

I get so upset thinking how selfish she is to not even want to let her own daughter know that mommy wouldn't be here to pick her up on Monday. I reaize she hates us and doesn't want to tell us anything because she doesn't want us to see just how selfish and immature she is, but her own child!! I just want to yell at her, something i have never done before in the whole 4yrs I have known her. I MAY NOT BE HER "REAL" MOM, BUT I CARE ABOUT HER FEELINGS, AND YOU DON'T?!!!

And she doesn't even realize how rediculous she sounds, DH asked her what she would do if one of my family members showed up to get SD and she couldn't reach either of us. She said of course, she would hand SD over to anyone who showed up to get her!!! AND YOU CALL YOURSELF A MOTHER, DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT THAT IS?!!! FUNNY HOW YOU ALWAYS SAY YOU WOULD ALLOW EVERY SITUATION WE TELL YOU WE ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH!! OH YEAH, AND COULD YOU GROW UP, PLEEAASE?!!

Sorry everyone, I've never yelled at her before, really never even said an unkind word, so I think I have a little built up frustration with her.

BM just called DH asking if we see SD's antibiotics around, seems she lost them between the time I handed them to her and the time she got to her ex-fiancee's mom's house. "GOOD JOB MOMMY!" I swear, if her head wasn't screwed on she's loose it..., oh wait, she already has!!! }:)