Yesterday was the first day that the weather was nice enough that we could have our first Little League practice. I coach my BS8 team, first practice, first impression of me for the parents of the kids on my team.

Anyway, my wife was meeting me at the field because I don't get off work on time for us to drive to the field together. I pull in behind her and find her, my BS8 and SS19 sitting in the vehicle waiting. I was kind of perturbed that SS19 was there.

He had a relationship with the mother of one of the kids that I had on my team last year, they broke it off soon after the season was over, she was 26, he was 18. He makes sure to let everyone know that he has slept with a 26 year old woman too, I knew the only reason that he was there was because her son is on my team again this year and he was figuring her to be there too. I don't understand what she was thinking at the time, and I don't want to know, I know she was going through a divorce, maybe just needed some company, but way too weird for me to even ask about.

Last year, one of my kids got hit by a ball because SS19 was showing off for the 26yo, throwing pop flies as high as he could and the kids were trying to catch them ( these kids are 5-9 years old), the only thing he said after the incident was that the kid that got hurt "must be a f*cking moron if he can't catch a ball". ( almost knocked his teeth out for him that day.....again)

My wife of course instantly picked up the vibe that I was not happy that he was there and got pissy about it. I told her that I didn't see any reason for him to be there, he wasn't there to help, ( didn't even try to help carry the gear to the field for me), I said I am here for these kids, you are here for these kids, SS is here for SS and noone else. I said I don't want him around the kids, he doesn't consider their saftety in anything he does and I don't want a parent getting pissed at me because my immature SS doesn't realize that he is not a kid anymore and that these kids aren't adults.

So anyway, we had our practice , SS was harassing 26yo playing grabass near the vehicles while I'm trying to ignore it and focus on the kids. Makes it hard when I have to keep one eye on him to keep him from doing something stupid.

I guess what really pisses me off is this is my time with my son and the team, I don't want him using that to fuel his wet dreams or show everyone what a stud he is.

Thanks....., just needed to vent