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Bm's new "fancy" life in the new apt ain't all that

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Dh has his call with SS14 tonight. BM answers, "here's YOuR SON!", all snotty style. This is the same woman who is allowed to call twice weekly, per the RO, but instead will text at 7:15 and say "it's 7... Whers ma son"

But I digress.

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Bm is clearly agitated. Dh asks ss if bm is drunk. Ss mumbles a no. Dh asks several times if he's ok. Ss mumbles that he is. Dh asks what he's been doing. Ss says "nothing". Dh asks if he's been playing Xbox -ss states that bm doesn't have wifi in her new apt.

Translation: my mom already doesn't know what to do with me and is getting agitated since she can't get drunk. Her gf did not allow her to tak her xbox to the new apartment. The gf is fed up with paying all bills and supplying her belongings to keep sm and ss happy. Ss has nothing at all to do. Bm can no longer have gf's parents watch ss all day while she parades around town. Bm must actually interact with her child during this two week visit.

Glad we sent the trac fone. Something tells me this will not end well - wether it this (or one of the two ither) two week visits this summer.

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This woman is horrendous. She left ss for a good 7 years and then tried to show up and get back in the picture when she saw me and dh getting serious. She hung in there for two years with visitation eowe and two weeks on/ off in the summer but she's been on a downward spiral.

Dh and I seriously think that her gf is paying for her new apt because the house the gf owns that bm was living with, also had the gf's parents living there. The parents are done with bm's drama - (maybe because I sent them screen shits of bm's texts to dh: "I'm horny... I want to fuck... Sorry wrong person... Don't tell.... I need to get outs here), or maybe it has to do with the gf and bm's on again, off again highly combative relationship, or maybe it's because bm's bf just got put in jail for selling drugs or that he threw her out if the car. Or maybe they are just tired of her demented personality after 9 years of her in their daughters life. Who knows.

Bm has no job but somehow drives a Lexus and a Chevy Malibu that are hers. Gf has two cars of her own.

Me thinks someone may be up to illegal activities... Or us just really good at licking box.