DH Has RO against BM - Should I try for one too after this incident
Last night we were in my brand new care (less than 6 months old) and we got a flat. first thing that went through my mind was BM, as she has put tacks under DH's tires several times so that he would get flats while driving, hence the RO he has against her.
BM had SS13 this weekend and it happened on our way home from the exchange. She had him jump out of the car as soon as she saw us rather than her usual 40 kisses and hugs she gives him.
I mentioned my theory to DH ,"maybe that's why she took off so quickly" thinking she didn't want a confrontation.
Anyway, i took the tire in this morning and the tire guy said that it was probably someone puncturing it and that he'd tell me for sure when i come back later today.
My Q: I don't have proof, but given her history, it's obvious that she is the one who did it/ or directed one of her ghetto friends to do it. She had SS at her home this weekend also, so that's her excuse, I'm sure. We have cameras in front of our house, but they wouldn't pick up who did this in the middle of the night as the car happened to be parked on the street instead of behind our gates.
Two weeks ago, we filed a police report for her breaking the RO and she has been DEAD SILENT since that time. This is her usual MO, lay low and attack. She thinks she's sly.
Last time, she put sugar in DH's gas tank after he requested child support. The police man taking the report said he'd call her and scare her, but without proof, there was nothing he could do, even though it was obviously her. It was also just another item to add to his file regarding how crazy she is.
What do you think?
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I think you should stop
I think you should stop parking your cars on the street and keep them behind your gate.
I know. And I get pissed at
I know. And I get pissed at DH when he doesn't pull the cars in. (we have to put the dogs away and open the gates). I get on him all the time about it, but he says it's fine and she's not going to do anything any more and she has SS this weekend anyway.
I'm like, hello... she is crazy, she doesn't care and what better alibi then she was with her son...
BM also lives an hour away
BM also lives an hour away for us.
Not that that's stopped her before.
And it's obviously her. I'm a professional woman with three kids, pregnant, not exactly running with a crowd that pops tires. I actually didn't realize that people do this kind of stuff till she actually did it to DH. He kept telling me that she'd mess his stuff up if he stood up to her. And as soon as he did, she got right to business: sugar in the gas tank (2xs), tacks under tires (3 times).
She's a gem!
She's thrown rocks through his windows before, etc, etc.
^^^ THIS!
^^^ THIS!
you know, when I read that
you know, when I read that original post about doing the stake out, i thought that deer piss would be such a fun idea...
Cam-er-ra, even a fake
Cam-er-ra, even a fake one.
We actually had to deal with this--DH's car got punctured over 4 times (I think it was 6 total, but I could be wrong and it was more since we literally stopped keeping count), in the months we first got together. Nails, all the same brand it looked like. Ddn't have proof either, since Bm was in another state but we knew for sure her exSO who she cheated on with DH but who was still in love with her was her gopher, was coming around our place, conveniently on the exact court dates.
DH had to change them all those times. And the car was IN OUR DRIVEWAY when these happened. (we don't have a gate).
Then when MY car got a flat with a nail (again, same brand), that's when we've had enough. DH installed a camera (which is not hooked up) and one of those lights that come on when it senses movement. Haven't had a flat in two years since for either of us.
YES!!!! When she initially
YES!!!!
When she initially started doing this, DH was mostly upset because those were the vehicles that he transported his/her child in. SS got very scared at the time and wouldn't even go to school because at that time, she would show up at his school and disappear with him for the afternoon without telling anyone.
He didn't understand why his mom would do that.
But now, a year later, he doesn't think it was her that did it...
Because they literally can't
Because they literally can't see past their own suffering nor can they see worse case scenario. They do this thinking it inconveniences them, but not realizing the worst case scenario is that they can get someone--the driver, the passengers, the pedestrian on the street or the other cars on the road, killed through these actions.
If they have the foresight to see that it can do those things, and they still choose to do it, well, then they are just purely insane, or evil, or a combination of the two, and are pretty much lost.
When DH requested his RO
When DH requested his RO against her, she filled out her response and said she didn't care if there was an RO against her.
She said the same thing in court, that they could go ahead and put one against her because she didn't care. She never admitted guilt, but just said, she didn't care.
I'd assume that she'd do the same thing.
LOL Rising...I actually
LOL Rising...I actually jokingly asked that. Not to the judge but SS's legal guardian. She laughed too.
Of course you should try for
Of course you should try for one. We have his & her temp RO's. You'd probably need it more than he would. She sounds about as psycho as our BM.