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Got an email from Ssstb14's teacher

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Submitted by step off already on Thu, 03/06/2014 - 8:58am

She's concerned about his emotional state. She says he seems obsessed with his former gf. (She broke up with him in December).

Says he walks by her desk all the time and stares at her in class. The girl also told the teacher it's starting to make her feel uncomfortable. Also said that the girl said he's acting weird at break - took his shirt off in the bushes and was "acting in appropriately with a bat"

I also took a peak at a recent text he sent to a friend where he said how horrible his life was because the girl doesn't like him and he "just cares about her so much".

I knew this boy was going to have relationship issues because of his mother but wow.

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Submitted by step off already on Thu, 03/06/2014 - 9:50am

Actually just said that to dh. Dh seems to think he needs an outlet for his testosterone...because the kid is lazy and hormonal. Not arguing about that but I do think the kid needs counseling.

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Submitted by step off already on Thu, 03/06/2014 - 9:51am

Dh is also very upset. He told ss that he can go to jail for this type of behavior b

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Submitted by step off already on Thu, 03/06/2014 - 10:25am

Agree on both parts. And the shirt off in the bushes is also disturbing.

I've always known that SS has major emotional issues as a result of his mother. Not only did she abandon him at 5, but she'd show up every few months and cause DRAMA - throwing things, yelling, crying, telling SS how much she loves him, making promises, and then she'd be gone for another 6 months not answering calls.

I was disturbed when he had this girlfriend because he was so intense. Now that they are no longer together, he still seems to be quite intense and heartbroken.

I've already put a call in to my daughter's counselor to see if she can see him or provide a referral. (I'd be ok with them both seeing the same counselor 1)because she's extremely good and 2) none of DD's issues have anything to do with SS which was relayed to us by the counselor.

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Submitted by step off already on Thu, 03/06/2014 - 12:03pm

It's sad. I don't know what I can do other than encourage DH to get him into counselling.

No matter what we do, this kid will always have his BM to deal with.

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Submitted by GhostWhoCooksDinner on Thu, 03/06/2014 - 1:49pm

Same here. Even if she DID agree to put him in therapy, which he so desperately needs, she'll always be whispering in his ear about howe the therapist is "wrong." Sigh. With her as a BM, the kid is doomed.