Ss14 literally has one friend that he spends any time with outside of school. He's a very nice respectful boy. Dh gives the friend a ride to school every day. Ss tries to tease the friend ALL THE TImE and throw him under the bus on car rides.

He was also way rude to him when we had the boy spend the night.

Dh asked the friend what hs he would be going to and started telling him about the small and inexpensive private school that ss will be attending. Ss started giving dh the "cut the throat"/ be quiet signal. Dh looked at him and just kept going.

This is literally ss's only friend that will spend time with him.

I don't get it. And this kid is way "cooler" than ss. (No selfies with duck face on his iPod)