So yes, BM's baby is due on DH's birthday and it weirded me out, but damn I have to laugh.
Thinking of it this way - it must suck worse for BM and her bf! The skids started to sound all worried and anxious when telling us about the date, saying 'we hope it comes on these days before'. LOL I think it's possible that BM will induce or have a C-section just to NOT have the baby on DH's birthday. And me trying to think positive here, if that baby does share DH's birthday, it means we might always have DH's birthday without skids! Sure DH will miss them, but not me!

Also, BM seems to think that her CS will automatically go up if I have a job. And she thinks I have a job (because I have joined some professional groups and volunteer orgs and having been dressing up in suits etc, and going to meetings). LOL. So, now that she'll no longer be working and has more expenses, she's prob looking to hit up DH for more CS with all her 'information'.

She keeps ranting about how her children were first and DH can afford a whole new family and poor her, having a baby and can't afford shit - all this to get DH to buy all the skids' back-to-school stuff, which, to be honest, I knew she would pull, and we've budgeted for it, because it's important and when those kids look back they will damn well know who provided it.

She's also very smugly happy that she will be able to collect pension on DH's account, having been married to him for minimally over 10 years (with long separations in between, but the years still count legally). It's probably the only reason she's not marrying her baby's father, because DH has wayy more earning potential than the bf. Again, I have to laugh at her, she's already given up and given in to depending on DH for the rest of her life. At least she might have another CS check when DH's set runs out. I wish her all the best in all the stupid shit she has in store for herself in the future. Really.