No more emails from BM.....
Got an email from BM this morning....it came in last night about 1 AM.
This was in response to an email we sent to her 5 DAYS AGO, and was our response to her and SD's latest lies and accusations....see post "I'm soooooo beyond pissed at SD and BM". Of course, that post doesn't say it all but it gives the general idea.
Anyway, she ripped and roared and called names and made more accusations like she always does and when I printed it, it was 4 PAGES LONG!!!
She told us she was closing the gmail account she uses and she did just that (or she blocked us) because I sent EMAIL RECEIVED and it bounced back to us!!!
I don't know what she's up to....she's always up to something, plus she recently made threats about taking us to court....AGAIN!!!, We WILL NOT go back to communicating with her by telephone. Even though we let it go to voice-mail when she calls and can record it....we will not return any of her calls unless it's an emergency or actually has the validity of being about one of the kids that needs to be responded to. We know she will only make up her own version of the truth if there is ever a conversation by telephone...we have been through this many times in the past and is the reason we set up the email account in the first place... and we will not try to defend ourselves against that!!! Especially when she gets the Skids to lie for her and agree with anything she says.
AAAAAGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!
And later, I will have to tell DH about it when he gets home from work....Gawd, I get so tired of being the "messenger". I think I'll just tell DH, "by the way, we got an email from the Bitch and we'll no longer be communicating by email" After that....it's up to him.
THANKS FOR LETTING ME VENT!!!!!
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so whats the next move?
how do u plan on communicating w her? i know, i know...w yr fist to her face, but seriously!
According to the Joint Parenting Agreement....
not that BM follows anything in it, but sure likes to throw anything in it into DH's face, even though we follow it to a tee...
"Where communication is necessary between the parents regarding visitation or other matters, the parents shall not send messages to each other through the child, but shall only communicate by direct telephone communications or in writing."
After too many harassing phone calls or BM giving her own "version" of the conversation and blaming any differences in memory to DH's "faulty memory"...I talked DH into communicating in writing like his papers say...hence the email or letters passed on to us or BM at pick-up/drop-off.
We WILL NOT go back to telephone communication with this woman!!! But if she calls (and she probably will) that's what voice mail is for and we already have MANY recordings saved on tape. I may be wrong, but anyone talking to a recording...leaves a message voluntarily because they know they are being recorded.....am I wrong??? And if need be, I will change the message on our voicemail stating to any callers that their message is being recorded.....Whaddya think??
Also, if we have to call her, there are ways of blocking our number from coming up on their caller ID!!
Knowing how this crazy woman operates...I believe we will make 1 1/2 hour one-way trips to pick SD and SS up and then will be told when we get there that they are "sick" or something and that BM couldn't reach us because she was "forced" (in her own mind) to shut down email communication with us.
We have threatened (many times) to "block" her if she didn't stop harassing us but we didn't do it (well, we did once) because it was our means of communication and so that we had "proof" of her outlandish behavior toward us.
And yes, Bellacita, that thought has crossed my mind LOL LOL LOL
"SOME PEOPLE WEREN'T MEANT TO HAVE CHILDREN"
LOL Cruella.....the power button.....LOL
I'll remember that one!!!!! It may come in handy...
Of course, if the BM starts calling our phone, we won't answer. That was Dh's exact words when I relayed that BM had sent "Final email"
BM knows we "screen" our calls....at least hers LOL!!
"SOME PEOPLE WEREN'T MEANT TO HAVE CHILDREN"
i mentioned that email ight
i mentioned that email ight be worth a try. BM called again today left message. he was instantly upset and moody after that.
i told him he hs set no boundries,rules or limits so its a fricken free for all with her until he does what he needs, he never takes my advice on anything so we'll see if he listens this time, he did agree that the sound of her voice makes his skin crawl. whats the back up plan now for communicating????
Voice Mail...
as far as we're concerned. We use cell phones so at least we don't have to hear her voice right away like you would on a land line answering machine LOL DH is like yours...the sound of BM's voice makes his skin crawl and he instantly gets nervous when the phone rings.....I assigned BM her own ringtone so we know it's her. Of course, I'm the one that gets into the voicemail since it's my phone.
The plus side....no more nasty emails...for now. DH thinks that BM'll end up re-establishing email communication after a little while....she can't stand the idea of not harassing us LOL
"SOME PEOPLE WEREN'T MEANT TO HAVE CHILDREN"