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BM too busy drinking yesterday to tell us where SD was so we could pick her up.

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My fiance went out of town this weekend with SS3 to visit his parents. He had agreed to take BM's daughter and SS on Sunday night when he got back even though it wasn't our night. (If you read my last blog, BM wanted to go to a sex toy party and was planning to drink...whatever)

DF texted BM and said he was on his way back so she'd know he'd be able to pick up her daughter at about 3:00pm. No response. An hour into his car trip, DF kept trying to call BM but BM wouldn't answer her phone, then BM TEXTED him "WHAT?" So DF called her again (he is really good about not texting and driving, wanted to TALK to BM and not text her). BM wouldn't answer her phone, but kept texting him to stop bugging her, or to get off her back, etc.

BM finally responded via text: "WTF do you want? I'm at a bar and it's loud I can't talk."

Basically, BM refused to pull herself away from the crowd so that DF could talk to her on the phone...she KNEW that he was driving with her kid in the car, and she'd rather have him text while driving than just find a quiet place to have a 2 minute conversation!! GRRRR!

Instead of texting her, he ignored her until he got home. He decided BM would call him when she needed SD to be picked up -- mind you, we had no idea who's house SD was at while BM was at the bar, so how could DF pick her up if he didn't know where she was?

At about 6pm we finally get a text from BM's MOTHER. "Are you coming?" DF called her, said he didn't know that she was at her house so he didn't know where to pick her up. BM had told her mother that we'd be picking up SD but didn't tell us, bbviously.

God this woman is dumb!

So I hope BM has the biggest hangover EVER today......