Drama....
So after the whole BM thanksgiving text message drama DH handed me his phone and told me just to send a simple text back to BM and let her know the dates and times of when he would be picking up the skids and to her send a screen shot of the CO where it states it. I guess she didn't appreciate that because she texted back that he needs to act normal and just answer her back whenever she texts him. She got no reply back of course.
Then Saturday night OSS decides to wash his feet one of my cooking pots and then put it in my kitchen sink with the dirty water still in it. When DH got up yesterday morning I told him that he needs to talk to his son and that I was taking all of the pots and pans and putting them in our closet because of his kid! He got pissed off at me because of course he doesn't want to deal with his kid or give him any consequences when he does things wrong.
The past couple of days he has been short tempered and yelling at me and I told him that I will not tolerate this crap and that I will just leave if he continues to be this way to me. So right now I am not speaking to him because I refuse to be treated like this.
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what kind of weirdo crap is
what kind of weirdo crap is washing feet in a pot? do you guys not have a shower/tub for the kids to take a bath..
Right?!?! I feel like I would
Right?!?! I feel like I would have gone into OSS and dumped the nasty foot water all over him and then told him to get up and clean the pot myself. I also would not be moving my stuff anywhere but I would consider putting a lock on the kitchen cabinets.
Nope he is just that feral I
Nope he is just that feral I guess. This is the same kid that told BM that my house was dirty though yet when she lived there they put ducklings in the bath tub!! I don't know what was going through the kid's head but I did put all my pots and pan out of his reach. It's pathetic that I have to do that but I did.
The day I have to hid my pots
The day I have to hide my pots and pans......
Why didn't your H just text
Why didn't your H just text her back with the dates and screen shot in the 1st place? He needs to stop entertaining her antics as many times as he continues to tell her the same shit. It's all in the CO that has been sent to her multiple times.
As for your step son you should have MADE him wash out the pot. I don't understand how your H is upset with you but doesn't discipline his nasty @ss son for washing his feet in a pot. Who does that nonsense anyway?
DH would be buying me a new
DH would be buying me a new pot, that is disgusting.
Your husband is a tool but you obviously know this.
Dad can't write out a simple
Dad can't write out a simple text and the kid is using a pot as a wash basin. You are in a house full of dodo birds. I don't understand why you don't fly away from the insanity.
But you don't refuse to be
But you don't refuse to be treated like this. You allow it time and again. You even aid your DH in his dealings with BM. He's going to keep treating you this way because all he gets as "punishment" is the silent treatment. You sticking around through his crap is no different than him avoiding discipling his son. Neither of you want to do the hard part.
I don't know what else to do
I don't know what else to do because he pushes me away when I tell him something.
WHY DO YOU STAY WITH A MAN
WHY DO YOU STAY WITH A MAN THAT TREATS YOU THIS WAY?
What you need to do is learn to love yourself more than you love him.
I don't know what else to do
I don't know what else to do because he pushes me away when I tell him something.
Tell him to deal with BM
Tell him to deal with BM however he would like, and to leave you out of it. If he wants to read the CO to her for every holiday, that's his business. Why can't he just text her himself?
And I can't even imagine what DH would do if SS had ever used a pot to soak his feet in - WTF? I'm fairly certain my SS had no idea where to even find a pot.
The kid is sick
You don't wash you feet in a pot used for cooking. And your DH is not upset. Time to leave the circus, you tryed it's never going to change.
You can start by telling your
You can start by telling your H that where in this Gods green earth does he think its OK to allow his son to wash his feet in a d@mn pot??? What's he's going to do next.....wash his ass in the kitchen sink? This should be basic common sense for your H but he refuses to reprimand and parent his feral child.....
Next time, make SS a very
Next time, make SS a very special meal all to himself in that cooking pot. Make sure his dirty foor water forms part of the meal.