Oh, I just HAD to post this... sorry to be a blog hog! :)
Aw, isn't this sweet??? SD20 posted this as her status tonight on facebook. I was on DH's profile playing a game (I send myself stuff I need... LOL) and she had sent him a random chat message. I did not respond of course so I'm sure she knew I was on there. This popped up a few minutes later. I'm sure just another immature dig at me... which only proves that she hasn't learned a damn thing nor does she care to.
How sweet that she acknowledged her drug addicted, refused to take care of her own children, let drug money pass through her kid's hands, let her boyfriend choke and throw dishes at her children, landed her ass in jail for child neglect and endangerment mama by name! Yeah... damn straight you only got 1 mom and she is a complete and total PIECE OF SH**! She's knows that's all she's got LEFT!! Kinda scary though that THAT is how low she shoots for people to fill her HERO and BEST MOM EVER roles.
♥ If your Mom is your HERO, your BEST FRIEND, or just the BEST Mom EVER..if you are blessed to still have your Mom, or if she is an angel in heaven..paste this to your status and let everyone know you are proud of your Mom and that you love her dearly. You can replace a lot of people in your life but you only have ONE Mom♥ i love you, (insert BM FULL NAME here) (:
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So even at 20 they don't get
So even at 20 they don't get it???? I keep hoping that my SD13 will realize how little her BM has done, and how much we (me) do for her, when she gets older.
Well, my sd20 is extremely
Well, my sd20 is extremely immature... she is a drama whore that will stick her nose into her friend's business even going to far as to stand against her friends if it will create some kind of tension. She feeds off of other people's shortcomings. She also has a temper from hell and will bite your head off over the smallest, simplest things.
SS22, he's at least a little more conscious of all that I did. He has told other people that he loves his mom but I was the one that did everything for him that mom should do. So he KNOWS the difference and I think he does appreciate what I did for him in his own way. He's just screwed up on a bunch of other levels, which is why I disengaged from him. He was NOT a good role model for my younger children at all. He also creates a ton of drama for himself (married young, separated before a year, got another girl pregnant while separated, and TONS of drama created through that) but he doesn't fuel other people's drama. So it really does depend on the kid and in my case I see no way that sd will EVER, EVER admit the things that ss will admit because in her mind it would be a complete betrayal of her POS BM. Or at least that's what I think the issue is... and I could be totally wrong.
But I always hope that others don't go through what I've gone through.
No, Frontierville. I'm
No, Frontierville.
I'm addicted. LOL Oh I would have LOVED to post something on her stupid post, but for 1, I really don't want to waste the energy on her and give her something else to fuel all of her drama BS... and 2, I don't want dh to be stuck in the middle unless he chooses to be. I won't lie... I wish he would have said something himself, but of course that will NEVER happen because he knows his little princess won't speak to him again. She really does piss me off. She NEVER called DH before I disengaged. In the last few weeks she calls him nearly everyday or at least texts him, and she also messages him on fb constantly. I don't ever say anything about it because I know she is doing it to piss me off... which it does... but I won't give her the satisfaction of knowing that it does. ROFL
This is sad. I had a post to
This is sad. I had a post to this effect and I have read several about how SKids do not accept stepparent as a true parent, no matter how much you do. I really don't know how we could change this. I see a lot of post about forgotten birthdays and Christmas-es. I think one other blg said it best. The biological parent has to show from the start that you are an important part of the family and that holidays, birthdays, mother's day all thoses things are important. I have always told the skids that all I really need is a card or acknowelgement, not necessarily a gift or some big show. It's a respect thing. And for all you do for them, you deserve it!
I am like stepaside. I never
I am like stepaside. I never expected my sk's to accept me as a PARENT. But having no extended family around us at all on my dh's side and their BM and her family all living 2500 miles away, I did expect that we would be close on a family level. In fact, I thought it was starting to happen when SD20 was pregnant. She would text or call and ask me questions about the pregnancy, I bought her tons of crap for the baby, paid over $700 to give her a baby shower that the likes of this town has never seen... she even asked me to be in the delivery room with her. It was a couple of months after the baby was born that things started changing... jealousy that it was ME getting close to her son and not her mother possibly? I have no freakin' clue and I would drive myself insane trying to figure it out. Lord knows she would never TALK to me about it. And honestly, I don't feel like it's up to ME to sit here and try to figure it out. If she wants to treat me like she has been, then she obviously does not value me as part of her family and now she can see what it feels like to not be cared about and I won't keep putting myself in a position to be hurt or insulted. As I have told my husband, the ball is in her court and if she wants to be a part of this family, she can come and talk to me and make this BS right. I'm over it.
Okay - I did not read
Okay - I did not read anyone's comments - but I really hate those comments on FB - I mean really it is probably some little shit in some basement making this up and seeing if it can go viral - Wicked - really F_____ her - the BM is a piece of trash and so is her little clone - she is 20 you are finished with her - let her live in her dream world with her asshole mother - I know she is trying to hurt you - you do know that now you can hide individual comments on your page use the option - it is a good one - just hide that comment - we here know what it takes to be a SM - none of these little shits have a clue and never will!!! We can only hope that someday they are stuck with skids worse than them - keep your head held high you are a great person and don't let her rain on your parade!!
You should start this comment on FB - I bet the SM's of the world would spread it like wild fire!!!
♥ If your Stepchild is the thorn in your side, your Worst Nightmare, or just the biggest Pain in the Ass EVER..if you are cursed to still have your stepchild long after they should be out of the house and living there own life not bugging the shit out of you, or if she is a devil come to torment you..paste this to your status and let everyone know you are ashamed of your Stepchild and that you dearly wish that she would disappear. You can replace a lot of people in your life but unfortunately due to marrying the wrong guy you will always be stuck with the little asshole♥ i hate you, (insert nasty Stepchild's FULL NAME here) ( }:) }:)
ROFLMAO I love this! Wish I
ROFLMAO I love this! Wish I COULD post it!! Unfortunately I know I would be slammed by darn near everyone on my friend list!! LOL
I deleted sd from my Facebook a month ago when she was telling my dh that she knows I do not discipline my kids based on things I was writing on fb... Which I never posted anything negative about my kids so how she even knew they were in trouble is beyond me. But anyway... I had gotten on dh's page. I play frontierville and I use his profile to send myself things I need to complete goals. I've done this long before the disengagement.
but anyway... I knew exactly what she was doing. Which is how I know that she has not learned a damn thing. And if she hasn't or doesn't want to, that is totally fine. I won't associate with her.
I do understand sd's need for acceptance and love from her bm. My thing is, don't be jealous of my kids and my relationship with them when you used to have the same relationship and threw it down the toilet because you have some loyalty issue to your mother that you can't get straight in your own head. I sure won't keep going back for the abuse from your confused a$$!
"We can only hope that
"We can only hope that someday they are stuck with skids worse than them"
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OMG! I think this EVERY DAY! Caregiver, you and I are kindred spirits!
♥ If your Stepchild is the
♥ If your Stepchild is the thorn in your side, your Worst Nightmare, or just the biggest Pain in the Ass EVER..if you are cursed to still have your stepchild long after they should be out of the house and living there own life not bugging the shit out of you, or if she is a devil come to torment you..paste this to your status and let everyone know you are ashamed of your Stepchild and that you dearly wish that she would disappear. You can replace a lot of people in your life but unfortunately due to marrying the wrong guy you will always be stuck with the little asshole♥ i hate you, (insert nasty Stepchild's FULL NAME here) (
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LOVE, LOVE, LOVE IT!!!!! CG, you ROCK!!!!!!
ROFL unfortunately I don't
ROFL unfortunately I don't feel like that right now thanks to his lack of support for me and his unconditional support for his little princess despite her crap attitude. He and I have been on the outs a bit the last couple of weeks and I honestly am about ready to tell him to just get his shit together and go live with "baby girl" because I am sick of dealing with all of it.