I'm just disgusted. DH let her stop by to see SD16's baby. I was at work and told DH I wanted her gone by the time I get home. When I got home I noticed my kindle fire and charger that where on my dresser plugged in are missing. DH and I looked everywhere SD16 willingly let us check all of her stuff and she has been home with DH and the baby all day and DD has been at a friend's house. DH didn't want to believe it but we checked to see if anything else went missing. At the end of the day he tucks his wallet in the back of his dresser the wallet was emptied out to the tune of 216 dollars and clothes had clearly been moved around. Some jewelry is missing out of my box. Two pairs of shoes and a hand bag is missing along with an expensive dress DH got me as a gift. I asked DH if she had a big bag with her. He said she had her rolling backpack with her. Who needs their backpack with them on a Sunday? DH why are you so clueless. He was probably sittiing back watching football oblivious to the rest of the damn world. DH drove over to BM's sister's house to confront SD because I would have not been able to hold back from beating the living crap out of both of them the second they opened their mouths and started trash talking. DH said SD was clearly intoxicated and denying everything. They wouldn't let him in. He believes both SD and her aunt are abusing drugs. I called the cops to report a theft. They told me they have to have probable cause to arrest her like one of saying we actually saw her take the stuff. They did take our statements and told me their will be in an investigation and the attorney or something will have to decide if there is a case. Does this sound right? I thought they would have to go and check their place and see if they find my stolen property or do they need a warrant and all of that? I'm so pissed right now you don't even fucking know. I want to throw up, cry and punched the hell out of something. DH wants to put her in rehab and get her help. I want her to pay for what she did and get my things back and then we can talk about getting her help. I fucking told you I an never have freaking happiness in my life without a sh*t storm. I'm trying to hold it together tapping my feet real hard trying to stop myself from driving over there and getting my sh*t back myself or getting my own justice. I know its not right but I am so f*Cking pissed off!