The nerve
So, the 17 yr old who is still not talking to her dad (my SO) had the nerve to text him today and ask him for money to reload her phone. He said he didn't even answer her text. Proud of him for staying strong. We were talking about her this weekend - he is hoping she'll get her act together so she can come to our wedding ceremony & party next year. We're just in the early stages of planning - nothing is set yet (no firm date, etc). I told him that I really don't want her at my wedding. Period. He didn't say much at first; then he said that he understands but it is his daughter and he loves her and really wants her there. I told him that she would really have to show me she's changed, not be disrespectful, apologize to both of us...... He agreed. But in the 3 yrs I've known this brat, she only gets nice when she wants something. I'm done with her. I (almost) feel bad for not liking his kid.
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Don't feel bad hon..... I do
Don't feel bad hon..... I do not like my SD as well.... I don't like her, I don't hate her I have no feelings towards her...
I already decided.... if we do get married I will make sure it's spur of the moment thing, court house... this way I do not have to invite Aergia lol..... all parents are living in the same town, thus I can quickly call my parents and say meet me at the court house getting married...
if SO does not call his, not my problem....
But if you are having a romantic wedding with all the things, you will have to invite the brat, cause she's SO's daughter, whether you like her or not, and you probably have to allow a +1 for her..... but you do not have to include her in the wedding, not even as bride's maid... she can simply be a guest, stuck at the back table next to the kitchen
That's an excellent point!
That's an excellent point! The two worst tables at any party, bathroom and band. Perfect for SD and date, and maybe a few annoying relatives.
why is she put there... cause
}:) }:) why is she put there... cause the bar knows every one at that table is under age and may not consume alcohol legally...
actually just thought of it lol..... the non-drinker section will be far from the bar, close to the kitchen or toilets, with the bar on the opposite side.... yes I will brand the non-drinkers
then no one can say I'm nasty towards SD.. she's under age, and may not consume alcohol
We're going to do the court
We're going to do the court house too - he said he wants her there as well (eye roll). Then we'll do a party with family and friends - may or may not be the same day. 2nd marriage and I'm older - I don't want the traditional reception type event. I just want a PARTY. Later in the year - around Sept - we're planning a cruise for our honeymoon. I'm waiting to see how things go. Like I've said before, her birthday and Xmas both coming up so I'm sure she'll try to make up with daddy. He was talking last night about getting both girls xmas presents. I haven't said it yet, but I personally won't be getting her a thing....anything I would've spent on her will go towards gift for the 15 yr old. And I don't want him putting my name on anything he gives her. I want her to know I didn't get her a damn thing. You gotta teach people how to treat you and I for one won't be disrespected. Wow - I really don't like her and none of my 3 kids like her either cause they've seen how she treats her dad (who they really like and get along with great). My kids are better to him than his own daughter.....smh
well if your kids are not
well if your kids are not going to be there then she can't be there, it would be very very unfair towards yours..
remember this and use it....
Oh my kids will be there and
Oh my kids will be there and his 15 yr old is welcomed also. Just don't want anything to do with the 17 yr old....she's loud and obnoxious and disrespectful. I already anticipate that if I say I don't want her there, the BM will make a stink and not let the 15 yr old come either (they'll be 16 & 18 by then). Maybe the older one will change by then. (Ok, I can't even keep a straight face saying that)