Wow has this been a fun week. Some minimal annoyances by BM finally paved the way to a royal spectacle yesterday.

Let me preface this by saying that BM lost the skids sports uniforms this week. How one does that I'm not sure. DH and I worked together and made skids uniforms that were close using iron ons and similarly colored shirts. They were so excited and grateful

After losing the shirts, BM (the same individual who wanted these kids signed up for sports) announces that she will be attending her other child's (not DHs) sporting event. She will not be available, she says to take skids to their game, but will be there to take them from the game.

Skids said they wanted to play sports so DH and I believe they need to stick with it and face the consequences of their choices, whether the consequences are good or bad.

I agreed to take skids to soccer as DH was working this weekend. I planned on going and sitting out of the way and leaving at the end of the event. I enjoy supporting my skids and we have a great relationship. It is not like many others on this board....yet, anyway.

So I go and I'm minding my own business sitting and watching the game with some of SS friends parents who are also friends with DH and I. Dh family was also there sitting with me. BM family walks by and politely speaks and keeps going. Then BM arrives and the fun begins.

She proceeds to glare at me, gradually escalating her body language with each glare. I was busy talking, but people told me later she was glaring. When her glares didn't garner the reaction she was hoping for, she left her family and approached my group and announced "YOU can leave at any time. I'm here now."
I replied, "thanks, but I would like to stay and watch" and went back to watching the game.

Then, in a mature fashion, BM proceeds to stand directly in front of me, turns around and says, "you have no business being here." I pretended I didn't hear her and continued talking to the people on my group. She proceeds to begin wiggling her rear end around and announces to me, "I hope I'm not in your way. I would feel absolutely terrible if I was." I said, "no you're fine" and continued about my business.

FIL then announces that he is going to move and moves his chair and tells DH SM that he can "see the entire field from here." He then proceeds to begin talking to me from his new area. Instead of screaming to him (I'm not looking to cause a scene), I walk over to where he hs moved and talk to him. BM then makes a mad dash to where SS is playing on the field and begins cheering for him loudly. After the game I packed my things up to leave and was not going to stick around to see skids (DH was getting them back after work anyway. I could tell them good game then) and BM family member dashes over to me to begin talking to me about our baby(I'm pregnant, almost due actually). I am polite, but also trying to leave. So now I am surrounded by DH family and BM family members (who are all very cordial and polite to me and DH). BM dashes over (before even retrieving her own children) and begins to motion me to leave. I politely excuse myself and DH family follows me and I hear her screaming at the top of her lungs that "she's a fucking stuck up bitch and she doesn't fucking belong here." I continue walking and before long DH family and BM family are following me to the parking lot. I get in my car and leave and thus concludes my entertaining saturday.