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Is it wrong that I really don't want ss to come this weekend?

Tx mommy of 3's picture

Submitted by Tx mommy of 3 on Fri, 02/04/2011 - 12:20pm

First, ss IS coming so this is just a vent. Originally dh was going to stay the weekend with mil in ss town since dh has a long weekend by chance. No problem for me, usually means the kids and I have a fun weekend and NO SS! We stay up late, watch movies, eat junk food, play games, etc. Except, plans have changed! The baby and I have been in the hospital since Wednesday. She is getting out today but I haven't seen my other two kids since wed afternoon. I was still hoping dh would stay the weekend with mil and ss. My parents are coming in tonight to see the baby and so I'd have their help either way. But dh decided to cancel his plans and stay here this weekend. Which is good, I know. But he is still picking up ss for visitation. So that means he won't even pay attention to the baby anyway or help with the kids. (which is fine since my parents will be here.) It also means this weekendwill be about entertaining ss instead. So I'd just rather them both not be here but dh actually thinks by staying he is being 'good'. And if it were just him I'd agree. I think he's afraid of looking bad in front of my parents if he does leave not knowing we all would rather ss not be around, even if that means no dh. Oh well.

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Submitted by dakotamom on Fri, 02/04/2011 - 12:56pm

what about if you tell your DH that you are fine with him and ss being away from home as you will have family there. remember you have just got home from the hospital - you should have the final say of who is at your house in your current condition to promote healing - not stress Smile
take care

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Submitted by Tx mommy of 3 on Fri, 02/04/2011 - 2:57pm

Yeah, but dh would never go for it. It really isn't even an issue because ss is coming whether I like it or not. Ss also isn't one of those grimy, sickly kids or anything. He doesn't get sick often, but yeah, he would be bringing in germs. But dh would say my parents would be bringing in germs too. It is just more of the fact that the weekend is going to turn more into entertaining ss instead of taking it easy and getting the baby better. And yeah, I'M staying inside no matter what and won't be going anywhere with the baby, but at least I was looking forward to spending time with my other two kiddos too. And dh will just take them to do whatever he does with ss. It's just a vent. I've been cooped up in a hospital with no visitors and was ready to just get home and relax. And to be honest, I don't relax when ss is here.