And so it begins
If any of you have read my posts from yesterday you'll know that BM has announced to DH that she is kicking her husband out of almost a year and wants a divorce. Now before this guy came into the picture she was stalking DH and actively trying to break us up. I had a sneaking suspicion that this behavior was going to start again. Maybe not the stalking but trying to get DH back.
Yesterday DH went to pick my BD up from school and of course BM is there picking up their kids. Which she never did last year and I think started the day before yesterday when she made her announcement. She asked DH if he would take the kids for her and then drop them off at her house a little later. DH told her no, that he would take the kids, but she could come and pick them up at our house. Obviously this is not what BM wanted and told DH that she would just take the kids.
Anybody find anything strange with this? If all she wanted was for DH to take the kids for her for a couple of hours she would have been fine with picking them up at our house. I wonder what she really wanted?
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Yep - sounds like she is
Yep - sounds like she is trying to get him to go to her house. Pathetic! It sounds as though he is seeing through her sad little tricks, and refusing to play along, which is good.
He's not seeing though it.
He's not seeing though it. I'm the only one that can see her craziness until it gets out of hand. He's just not going to take the kids for her and then go and drop them off at her house. He doesn't want to be around her at all.
Ha. Now that's funny. Sadly,
Ha. Now that's funny. Sadly, I do not have her email address. Hmmmm...but DH does.
She found her soon to be ex online while he was still in prision. Moved him in the month he was released and married him four months later.
I just don't want her to
I just don't want her to start her crazy BS again. Sending DH texts about how she's still in love with him and if they ever loved again she would love him right, sending pictures of herself to him, showing up at the house when both DH and I are at work without our knowledge or approval, sitting outside the house at 3 am. She messes with their BD too. Telling her that mommy and daddy are going to get married again, if daddy and unhappy aren't getting along mommy and daddy are going to get married again, and mommy's sad because mommy and daddy aren't married anymore.
She even been pulling some wierd sh!t with me recently, trying to get me to goout and have drinks with her or go out to a movie with her. She's nuts and I don't trust her as far as I can throw her and at the rate that she's putting on weight I probably couldn't even pick her up.
This is how things were
This is how things were before she met her soon to be ex husband. DHwon't accept them now. He's learned a lot about how to deal with her. But he also has issues with being direct which is how you have to deal with this lady and who knows id she would stop even if he was direct with her. I just don't want to deal with her craziness again. She's nuts and takes it to the extreme.
I hope so. It never really
I hope so. It never really crossed my mind that the school thing was her reverting back to her old stalker ways. It makes sence though. Just a couple of weeks ago when DH told her that he wanted to put SS in full time kindergarten she was asking him to pick the kids up durring her week and keep them for about an hour until she got off of work and now all of a sudden she's able to pick them up from school everyday. Something's fishy about that. And yesterday when DH refused to take the kids and drop them off at her house because she had something to do she magically was able to take them. Oh god.....I don't want to do this again.
I was half tempted to send her a text last night letting her know that I'm sorry that things didn't work out between her and her hubby but if she starts pulling the same crap she pulled the last time that we would have no problem filing harassment charges in order to get her to stop.