I can't believe it, she caught ss14 having sex with his girlfriend, and then let them go out this weekend to an amusement park, and she paid for it and drove them there!!!WTF!!!! I called her tonight and let her have it, I told her SS 14 needs a parent not a friend, she hung up on me I called back and SS14 answered and I told him he should not be making these adult decisions when he is not able to take care of himself he said " it's none of your fucking business. what I do" I told him not to use that tone of voice with me and not to curse at me, He told me to "fuck off" and hung up the phone (wonder where he gets that attitude?!!) I called back and told her nothing is going to be accomplished by hanging up on me, I know where you live and we will have this out one way or another!! I told her to put her foot down or pack him up and send him back if she can't do the job(he has only been living there 10 months) She has let him run all over the city doing whatever he wants because she doesn't want to deal with him, she no longer takes him to the youth organization we had him involved in and that he loves going to and is good for him, because she doesn't want to drive that far, (25mins) She seemed reasonable on the phone and I would no longer stand by and let her continue doing what she is doing without adding my say or she is going to turn him into an asshole!! I just hope it worked but it probably didn't!! has anyone else ever had this work for them or was I just talking to the wall!!!??