Last week was March break and SS12 spent the whole week with BM!! It was wonderfull!! no fighting everyone helped out, we had soo much fun because we didn't have to deal with his bull shit, it was just such a calm and peacefull week! Now thAT HE IS HOME HE JUST REINS CHAOS ON EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING!! I need him to go! I need to be released from the stress he causes, the whole family needs to be released, he came home and DH is taken ill, I am sure it is from stress, BD5is getting angry because ss12 picks on her bd9 and bs7 are uneasy and just try to stay out of his way, as he just throws a fit and yells at them when they are near. The Baby cries because he yells and starts fights with DH and I. The kids all walk around on eggshels when he is around because he puts DH and I in such foul moods they do anything they can think of to try and make us happy! We have our own business and we used to hurry to get home after we closed and the children came to work with us after school. we now find ouselves staying later and later at work with the younger kids as SS12 now goes home by himself after school. we have even started making supper at work and watching a movie while lying on the floor and playing and wrestling with each other. Tonight Dh was playing and wrestling with the kids and they watched a movie together while I cooked something in the back room, just fun happy family stuff! but as soon as we got home tonight SS12 started causeing fights with the kids, DH and I! Dh got sickand had to go to bed I think it is the stress of dealing with SS12. this kid needs to go he is just poison in our home!!!