BM inviting DH and I to her wedding

BM has been dating this guy for a few weeks and now is engaged and planning a wedding. If that’s not weird enough DH and I received this invitation in the mail.

“Please join us in celebrating true love, new dreams, and a new blissful future as we exchange marriage vows on --------- ------------ -----"

“DH and WWSMD I hope you will come it would mean a lot to us and the kids. DH I know this is a hard pill for you to swallow but I hope you can rejoice with me in my happiness. The kids would love to have you there. WWSMD you’re welcome to come and celebrate with us. You are a part of DH's life and the children’s lives. I hope to see you there."

Gift registry information.

I am dumb founded. This is the same woman that sent my DH a love letter two weeks ago and now she is getting married in four months and has already began sending out invitations. This can't be good for the kids to only have known this man a short time and now he is marrying their mom. If BM wasn't such an evil prude towards me I would try to talk to her woman to woman and tell her I think she is moving way to fast. As far as DH and me attending her wedding it’s not going to happen. That invitation was laughable. DH had to wipe a tear out of the corner of his eye from laughing so hard. I don't think I will ever understand her.

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"DH I know this is a hard

"DH I know this is a hard pill for you to swallow but I hope you can rejoice with me in my happiness"

uhhhhh, WTF? She certainly sounds full of herself, doesn't she? I'm assuming she's thinking your DH is going to be hurt and heartbroken by her getting remarried?

This wasn't a friendly gesture. This was a lame attempt by BM to goad your DH. Maybe she's thinking if she bluffs, DH will come running? I dunno, but it makes sense seeing that you said she was just writing a love letter to your DH recently.

Nut.Job.

Your opinion on how fast

Your opinion on how fast she's moving or how much time you think is appropriate doesn't count here. Don't touch the woman-to-woman thing, because if your opinion mattered to her, she'd ask.

If you've decided you won't be attending, leave it at that.

If they've been dating for a few weeks, there's a good chance they won't make it to a wedding 4 months from now.

It took me about 7 years to accept that I'll never understand BM. Only things that follow a particular order of "rules" can be understood. BM doesn't follow any set of rules, so her way of doing things falls into no category of making sense.