O/T Update On Being Stalked At Work

So here's an update to any of you out there that read my blog about the stalker I have at work and a gerneral overview for those of you who missed it.

For the last year and a half I have been being stalked at work. At one point this guy waited for me to come home and then pulled in right behind my car so couldn't leave when I had my daughter with me wanting me to go some bar with him. (I have moved in with my SO since then.)He also does this thing where when ever he sees me he just stares at me. He won't take his eyes off of me. This happens everyday, multiple times a day. The most recent occurance was when he walked by last week with his mouth open as wide as he could get it and his head tilted up while he was looking down and just staring at me. He walked the entire entrance of the area that I work in like that, which is about six feet or more. It's just wierd. I think I know what he was implying though as I'm sure you all do too.

After that I went to one of the head people that I work with and explained the situation to her. The next day she came over and was chatting with me when he walked by yet again just staring at me as he passed the entrance with this little smirk on his face right in front of her and she saw it. He didn't notice her standing there until he got to the end of the entrance. So at this point HR is getting involved for the third time and hopefully the last.

He knows something is happening. He hasn't stared at me since that moment and has been trying to make nice with my boss. I hope that he is scared, stressed out, and completely uncomfortable at work. It's just a taste of what he has put me through. And I hope they fire his supid !ss after this. }:)

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I'm sorry you are having to

I'm sorry you are having to go through this I hope that HR does fire him, but before that happens he has plenty of time to squirm and wonder what is coming his way. Karma is a bitch }:)

To bad you catch him with a

To bad you catch him with a video. Do you have a cell phone that takes photos? Is there anywhere at your workplace that has security cameras?

This creep needs to be busted in a big way. You might consider hiring someone to stay in the backgroud, observe, and take photos.

With the proof provided to the HR, it might send him on his way....which is to be out the door and onto the pavement!!

I meant: To bad you CAN'T

I meant: To bad you CAN'T catch using a video! Too sleepy tonight!

I usually would stand up,

I usually would stand up, walk over and say, BUD, DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM?? really loud. It embarrasses the guy and they stop.

I know its scary because he knew where you live. I hate it when pervs are so pervy.

In regards to confronting

In regards to confronting this guy, I have asked to do this several times but my boss will not allow it. Believe me when I tell you that I am no victim. But I also have to watch my own behavior as well. I have a bit of a mouth on me and probably would have said some pretty work inapropraite things to him. Not that he wouldn't have deserved it. And unfortuantely I work in a secure building where unless you work here you're not getting past security and they have a strict policy about cameras and cell phones. They don't want anybody stealing their secrets. But I do have over half a dozen witnesses to his behavior towards me who have written statements and I have also drawn up my own statement and sent it to our HR rep pretty much demanding that something be done about this.

And since the incident where he waited for me to come home I have purchased some pepper spray laced with military grade tear gas that's supposed to pretty much drop the person when you spray them and I also carry a baseball bat in the trunk of my car. If he pulls that again not only will he be down on the ground gagging for air but he'll also learn a valuable lesson about how it feels to be a baseball. Maybe he'll choose his victims a little better next time.

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