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Submitted by ferretmom on Sat, 04/11/2009 - 9:36am

H had to work last night and when he came in this morning he was fussing about his job. Apparently the boss's 5 yr old daughter was in the office yesterday and made a huge mess. H was complaining about having to clean the mess, cleaning the office is part of his job. He said and I quote "She's not my kid so why should I clean her mess." He then starts with how he's not appreciated for all his work and they never say thank you to him. I couldn't help myself, I started laughing. When he asked what was so funny I told him that is exactly how he treats me. I'm constantly cleaning up after sd and she's 19. I have never heard a thank you from either one of them. I get blamed for everything H and sd does. Humm the irony is so sweet I think. }:)

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Submitted by ferretmom on Sat, 04/11/2009 - 10:01am

I'm constantly telling him to stop being rude to people. He thinks it's funny to pick on cashiers, waitresses, anyone he perceives as weak or vulnerable. He has actually made some cry and thinks it's hilarious. Yet when someone stands up for themself he gets all selfrightious and throws a snit fit about how rude they are. I'm tired of making excuses for him. Right now I think he deserves everything he gets so he can learn how it feels to be put down all the time.

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Submitted by northernsiren on Sat, 04/11/2009 - 10:24am

"He thinks it's funny to pick on cashiers, waitresses, anyone he perceives as weak or vulnerable. He has actually made some cry and thinks it's hilarious."

OMG, I am so angry right now, your husband is a complete POS. I always read your blogs Ferretmom, and it's not like this is some revelation, but I would have LOVED to put your husband in his place at my restaurant if he even TRIED to pull that shit on one of my waitresses he would have been dropped on his ass on the curb by the 250 pound dishwasher/bouncers.

Men like this disgust me, preying on people who are weaker than them to boast up their own inferior ego. pathetic. I hope you divorce his ass, I would be mortified to be seen in public with such an arrogant jerk.

Sorry, this REALLY chafes me....

"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." Albert Einstein

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Submitted by B on Sun, 04/12/2009 - 1:33am

Dr. Phil would love him... I remember him telling someone who sounds a lot like your H, "Well, I guess you've eaten a lot of snot and spit in your lifetime". Your husband needs to be on the receiving end of the treatment he dishes out until he's a puddle of quivering goo on the floor and sucking his thumb.

I don't know how you've put up with him. Hugs to you.

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Submitted by ferretmom on Sat, 04/11/2009 - 5:58pm

First H works in a carpet warehouse at night and rarely has to deal with anything. Part of his job is to sweep the warehouse and straighten the office. My therapist says he has self esteem issues and that the only way he can feel good about himself is to belittle others. He looks for people that can't make eye contact and seem nervous, usually the teenagers who have never worked in public before. I keep asking him how he would feel if that were sd and someone was being rude to her. Doesn't faze him one bit. Now I see where sd picked up at least part of her obnoxious behavior. I keep praying that the therapy and meds help, it's just not happening as fast as I would like.