So, DH and I have decided we are going to be moving across town. I've lived in the same place for pretty much my entire life and will have to uproot my kids to a new school after they've been in the same school with the same friends since PreK. Lots of things factor in to the move. DH's job is mostly there, BS9 has all his league practices, games, tournaments, meetings there, four to five times a week, and BS14 is applying to magnet school but even if he decides to stick with public it's a pretty school over there. There's less traffic, less crime, we would have more land for our now 4 dogs and it's a peaceful country life there where I can hava a vegtable garden with out having to pay for permits and have someone come check it once a month. It's also closer to the pick up areas of both sets of skids, but there lies the problem. It's really close to Inbred. I might have some run ins with her at stores or other places. Of course I plan on ignoring her as I usually do when ever she is around but she won't ignore me I'm afraid. How do you handle run ins with the BM when she's a drama queen and has to try to start trouble with you and your DH? I'm not asking for just in case, she will try to start some shit if she happens to see me out with out him which is how I like to do most of my shopping.