Ladies,

There is hope (I must take this feeling and run with it until it smashes me against the shore Not that long ago I posted about how I was no longer letting bm in my home. DH supported (kinda) it is like he forgets just how pissed off he get every time bm does a dumb move. WELL NO MORE!!! Bm did it again. She kept ss8 for memorial day with no permission or notice Just didn't bring him home! Now as some may know bm lives 3 hours away while she finished beauty school ( o, so many worms can come out of that can but I am not going to rain on my own parade with ugliness DH was PISSED!!!!!!!!!!!! We discussed it ALL. How he and I would fight if I so much spoke ill of a situation and yet he could fly off the handle. How he is so used to bm being a waste that he overlooks the fact that she is being harmful! SHE LET SS TAKE OFF HIS SPLINT ON HIS FINGER AND GO SWIMMING!!! Now his once FRACTURED finger is BROKEN! She is an idiot. It takes all kinds I spose. Long story short DH finally seems to get that she is an attention seeker and that she sucks!! So she didnt come to the door this drop-off. She mailed a money order (for support, did I mention she moved away for beauty school?) And the kicker...when she called, ss answered /spoke/then hung-up! No need for them to speak (dh and bm) and anything that needs to be said can be written in an email. Ahhhhhhhhhh (insert sigh of relief) Even if this does not stop her ( which I am pretty sure it will not) It makes a difference between DH and myself and that is worth a lot! Also, ss is flourishing now that he is not being dumbed down every other week!

FYI SS slammed his finger in a door and ripped it out! He ripped skin off, nail, and fractured tip! BM and Gma (cause bm lives back home) said "the chlorine will help clean it up"! Now I am no doctor but this isn't a mosquito bite dummy head! It is an open flesh wound.

Thanks for listening ladies. Now and every time!