Conundrum
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So I just posted about the Tupperware. I spoke to BF earlier about what my concerns were and he stated that it had nothing to do with SS, as he cleaned the house and set up all the holiday gifts SS missed and that's why he brought back the Tupperware. Fair enough...
I am at work today and BF passes the hospital to get to the therapy. I looked out the window and saw them drive by. I know I should be happy that he is finally seeing SS, but I am sad hoping this isn't the end for us if the drama starts up again.
Just can’t believe
That Tupperware took up so much space that they interfered with SS many gifts,
it's really good that your BF is paying off his son for coming over. Maybe your boyfriend can get a bigger home. More space for gifts.
Red flag is a Red flag
That's a nice story.
That's a nice story.
And he didn't take the leftovers the night that you offered because?
His reasoning:
He didn't take the food last night as he said his fridge was full of food and in regards to him returning the tupperware, he said he was cleaning the house and cabinets and found them (He has had them a while and is a slob, I was using my big tupperwares for small portions)...But whatever, I am going to be watching him and his reactions. No more offering leftovers!
Well, you know him, I don't,
Well, you know him, I don't, but your gut told you different last night.
So, he just happened to be cleaning the cabinets and the fridge just happens to be full. I know that sometimes coincidences do happen, but... No, they really don't.
Yes you're right
Like I said, he is a slob and I know his house was a mess and the fridge was packed. But yes I know my gut. If he wants to live his life being dictated by BM and SS let him. I'm not going through that again.
He's a slob, he doesn't treat
He's a slob, he doesn't treat you well, he lets BM and his kid dictate his life and relationship with you, and you're still with him because...?
Ain't no man that good in bed.