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DH not sympathetic with ttc

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Submitted by christinen on Sat, 08/31/2013 - 9:29pm

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DH and I are trying to conceive.. I just got off my pill at the beginning of August so I did not really expect to be pregnant yet.. but I definitely did hope that I would be.. I am 2 days before my expected period and took a test which was negative.. DH's response kind of threw me off.. He said "it's not like we've been trying for a year, it's only been a month" - and I get that, I really do, but still- he knew my hopes were that the test would be positive, so for him to act like it's not a big deal was just wrong.

He said I need to just let things happen.. what, like your unplanned pregnancy (SD)? No thanks. I'm just really sad. I know it's only been a month. I just needed to vent a little bit. Sad

Thank you for reading.

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Submitted by emotionaly beat up on Sun, 09/01/2013 - 1:13am

I agree.

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Submitted by christinen on Sun, 09/01/2013 - 8:33am

Ok I will try to cut him a little slack then. It's just really hard because I recently had a medical issue (uterine cyst) that MAY make it difficult to conceive & then seeing SD running around is pure torture. Thanks for replying!