Feeling like b****slapping some s/kids today
Things I've had to deal with today:
- Getting two bad-attitude s/kids out of the house so I can go to the gym.
- SS8 taking things away from my son, causing him to cry, and then yelling at him to stop crying.
- Bratty SD13 being incredibly disrespectful to me, while I'm on the phone with DH, so I sent her to her room.
- Asking for an apology from SD11 who threw her pool pass at me the other day when I confiscated it because she FREAKING BIT SOMEONE.
- Trying to be the bigger person and calmly talking to SD13 about her attitude, and asking for an apology. She promptly walked away and said "I don't want to talk to you!"
- SS8 being sent inside by whorish little SD13 to say "_____ says she hopes your son hates you when he grows up as much as she hates you now."
I f***ing HATE these damn kids. HATE HATE HATE. I want them gone. I never want to see them again, ever. I told all that (minus this last line) to DH earlier, and told him I was taking my son to my parent's house this evening, because I wasn't wasting anymore time on his kids today. He was slightly offended...
We have these damn kids every minute of the day. Correction: I have theme very minute of the day. Their whorish crackpot BM is states away, and we have them all the damn time. If I had known they were going to be like this, it would have been a dealbreaker for me and DH getting married. I hate to say it, but I'd honestly rather be single than dealing with those demons.
Moreover, and I posted about this earlier with the want to keep my son away from them, I hate for him to be around them. They are pure evil, and are corrupting his innocence. I would rather have him in a Christian daycare down the road, and miss some time with him, than have him around them. At least he would be getting some good soul food, instead of their bullsh**.
Thanks for listening. Sorry if this was a little harsh. I'm literally shaking, I'm so mad.
I feel so sorry for you
I feel so sorry for you having to put up with this type of behaviour and it makes me worry for when y SS gets older. You mention that BM is states away and as a result you have skids all of the time. However, where is DH during all of this? I think it's important you speak to him about this and the effect of all of this on your son. On the other hand, has BM recently moved away? It seems skids are acting out so it's important to show you will always be there for them and to set some boundaries with DH and quickly beginning with punishment for SD for terrible behaviour!
Jesus, just because someone
Jesus, just because someone treated you horribly doesn't mean that it is acceptable to call children spoiled brats and consistently remind them they're being left out on purpose. That won't change their behavior. Doesn't sound like it worked for you. You hate your father and you troll this website to advocating mean treatment of children. And who says there is an inheritance? Why does everyone assume there will be an inheritance when someone dies?
We have talked about it, and
We have talked about it, and DH is at a loss with what to do. They get spanked. They get extra chores. They get privileges taken away. They get grounded. Nothing gets through to these soulless little brats. I was just told by my doctor the other day that I may need to be on anti-anxiety meds because of all this. I have NEVER had to be 'medicated' for anything like that.
We actually moved down to NC because of custody issues with my son and my ex. My ex is a good enough father that he wouldn't give my son up, and the only way my DH and I could be together (he's from up north) was for him to move down here. His ex has abandoned the family twice and only acts like a mom when it's convenient for her. And said he could take their kids and move down here. So here we are. And everyone is miserable. Except for my baby, who gets to see his daddy again.
I want to cry, thinking about how those kids are corrupting my son. He has his moments, but he is a really tenderhearted little kid and I don't want them to break him of his sweetness. Now I'm getting chest pains thinking about all this. I don't know what to do.
SS10 pissed me off first
SS10 pissed me off first thing this am. He leaves the shower in the on mode, so when i lean down to start it in the morning it sprays me in the face with ice cold water.......not the way I wanted to wake up this AM. So now he is mad at me b/c I told his dad to take away his ipod. He has been warned multiple times....I wanted to take him to the kitchen and spray him in the face with the dish sprayer on ice cold. We have them all the time as well and they are awful. Take my kids things and teach my kids bad stuff. I wish they would disappear.
I don't mean to laugh at you
I don't mean to laugh at you but I can imagine the look on your face when the cold water hit you.
Get a spraybottle. Fill with
Get a spraybottle. Fill with water. Squirt the little darlings every time they piss you off. OR Send their butts to camp.