Have you been getting angry calls from a BM, not your own?? Long,... but funny
Little background:
My boyfriend is going to install a land line in his new home. He did have a cell phone for the kids to use but BM returned it to us smashed, so my boyfriend disconnected it. HE TOLD BM ALL OF THIS.... IN EMAIL, AND SHE ACKNOWLEDGED IT!
But then he gets these emails: (I copy pasted, all grammar and misspellings are hers. She really tries to sound educated, but grammar was not her strong suit in school.)
I have tried several times over last few weeks to call the kids. They never answer their phone, as well as for that they are telling me that they are not aware that I have been calling their phone at any time. I ahave also left several voice nail messages which they have nots been told about. You need to provide an alternative phone number for that of which I can call to speak to the kids as well as they can call me which with as they wish. You cannot continue to keep them from being able to speak to their mother. You have yet to provide me with an alternative phone number in which I can call the kids. I know that you have turned their cell phone back on, only because they told me last week that it was on again. Everytime I call their phone to speak to them, my call is cut off by "someone" on your end. I want to be able to speak to my kids. You do not have the right to keep me from talking to them or them from talking to me. Nor does anyone else in your household. Please have the kids call me.
Then another email an hour later:
So, first of all, you're not denying the fact that you have denied the kids from answering their phone. Perfect! Thanks!
Second, we both know that you are not going to install a "911" phone line. I called your phone company last week. They don't offer that service. So, either allow kids and I to talk their line or pay for a home phone line. It's that simple.
:jawdrop: Do What???!!!
My boyfriend responded by email:
BM,
For the 3rd time, and final time, when the land line gets put in I will let you know. Until then you can call my cell phone to talk to the kids. I am not denying you access to the kids. For whatever reason you decided on your own to start calling the number I disconnected again and expected to reach the kids. It has not been “the kid’s cell” since I disconnected it. Please stop calling that number expecting to reach the kids. I'm sure whoever has that number now would really appreciate it.
I was laughing my butt off when he showed me his reply!!! Whoever out there whoever has that number,... Oh no! Unknowingly we just unleashed the Empousa on you!
Hahaha,... what kind of entitlement must she have to call that number and just expect her kids to answer it? I bet she just kept calling that number daily until she got it to ring,... then some unknowing person on the other end activates their phone and gets her bugging the shit out of them,...
On top of her just deciding
On top of her just deciding to call that disconnected phone, I think it's a little creepy that she called our phone company. It's really not any of her business what kind of phone line we get. I think she is just trying to fain a "little victory".... she got away with only installing an emergency 911 line where you can call in but not call out (so the kids can't call their dad while they are at visitation) and she wanted to find out if we were able to do the same to her. She found out we can't so I'm guessing she sees that as a victory?? :?
This is ridiculous that she tries to make everything a competition.
She never used to write like that either until my boyfriend said he is doing email only communication because he wants evidence for the courts of exactly what we do with the kids,... then she is trying to write "smart" but she is too stupid to see that she is instigating crap and no matter how "smart" she writes she is still going to look like a dumb butt in court if these emails are ever shown...
Wouldn't a 911 phone work
Wouldn't a 911 phone work better the other way? Where you can call out.....ya know to reach 911....instead of only allowing in coming calls?
What good does recieving incoming calls do in an emergency? Hope someone randomly calls you and you can ask them to call 911 on their real phone??
The 911 phone only allows the
The 911 phone only allows the kids to call out to 911 no other number.
It can receive calls from anyone, but only dial out to 911 in an emergency.
Was she writing the second
Was she writing the second email like she had received a response from him? Very cuckoo!
She emails a second time an
She emails a second time an hour later automatically assuming the man has nothing to do but check his emails. He didn't respond within 60 minutes, therefore he 'agrees' with whatever BS she wrote?
She sounds like a whole lot of 'fun'. Next time ignore her longer and save the emails as they get crazier and crazier. By the end of the evening she outta be ready for the nut house.
The poor person who got the old number has probably already changed numbers again. She might be on the 3rd if not 4th victim by now.
This sounds just like our BM!
This sounds just like our BM!
She sent DH an email a few months ago saying she was disconnecting her house phone because ever since the divorce she's been struggling to make ends meet (5 years, a professional certification, and a job promotion later and she's still "struggling").
So he started calling her cell phone. After about 3 days, she sent another email accusing him of harrassing her while she was at work by calling her cell and that she has no idea why he suddenly stopped calling the house phone that she had set up JUST FOR HIM!
LOL .. I wonder if she gets dizzy with all those circles she spins.
This is what we deal with on
This is what we deal with on a daily basis,... My boyfriend used to only call her, but their conversations over the phone were worse than this and she would scram and hang up... Thats why he wanted email only communication.
At least this way her crazy is being documented,... And everyone can see the proof if they ever go back to court.