he lest that brat go skating and then yells at ME for buying cigs????
ok, so last weekend sd11 punches 2 holes in her wall. she is grounded to her room to clean it, all week she does nothing and it takes bf 3 1/2 hours to clean her room today. her attitude sucks, and she got a bus referal for being bad on the bus. so today....
we're at the park with the kids. sd11 goes to friends house then asks to go skating. bf tells her yes and gives her 10bucks. mind you, no bills have been paid yet this month, and he spent 80 on his pos mud truck. still aint fixed. so we have like 157 left till next thursday and when i got cigs for 12 bucks he yells at ME about not wanting to spend the money. helllllooooooo.
i swear, if sd11 is ever going to change, she needs to be removed from bf's care. he is not helping her at all. and when i bring it up to him, he gets mad. well, if u let a kid walk all over you, they wont stop. duh. i hate the 2 of them so much.
Your husband seems a problem
Your husband seems a problem for you. You should have added another hole on sd11 room. Haha! Or rather get a
cash advance and charge it to your husband(without him knowing) who do nothing but favoring sd11 and smoke cigs.
Hey sick f-! Get off our
Hey sick f-! Get off our site, you are making this worse, dumb*ss-!!
Hang in Evil, I think you are entitled to $12 under the circumstances-!_________________________________________________________
"What luck for rulers that men do not think."
Adolf Hitler (1889 - 1945)BF is the problem, not SD.
BF is the problem, not SD. He is the one who needs to start making changes in order for SD to make them, i.e. actually following through on what he says regarding disciplining SD. He is the one who needs to make her treat others (you included) with respect. He is the one who has to learn to say "no" to SD once in a while. He is the one who should take her to counseling and anger management, as it sounds like she has a lot of issues she doesn't know how to deal with.
Something that really helped me when I was feeling angry at the SDs when BM had custody was to go running. It really helped me burn off steam. I went to counseling, too. I really recommend that because it helped me to figure out that I was misplacing a lot of my anger on SDs when I should have been placing it on DH. My counselor told me that DH was the problem, because he wasn't standing up for me, making his kids behave, he was allowing the kids to disrespect me, and BM issues. We also got the kids counseling (they still go) and counseling saved our family.
I would yell at him back and
I would yell at him back and make him miserable:) And then tell him straight in his face, you gave her 10 bucks for skating when the bills are not paid yet....so next time think a little. and then ignore him.
Personally, i woudl dump his sorry ass.
Sorry. just my opinion. Everyone is right, bf is the issue....and if he doesnt change, things will worsen and u will be played big time.
Yeah, SD is not the issue.
Yeah, SD is not the issue. She is a child who follows the lead of parents/adults and his lead sucks.