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I just did something I don;t know If I should have.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 09/08/2010 - 1:38pm

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I am friends with bm's sis on face book and the skids but not bm. Bm is a horrible person and her sis (the one i'm friends with even said so) anyway today is her b-day and I wrote happy bday on her wall. Yes I know bm will see it. was that a good idea? I mean her sis is a great person and without her I don;t think bm would have backed off as much as she has. she was her sound of reasoning. know what I mean? Now I'm just feeling a little guilty that it may have been snarky. ya know

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Submitted by starfish on Wed, 09/08/2010 - 1:41pm

don't worry about it.....

in fact, invite the sis out for b-day celebration drinks ~~ that would burn bm's ass big time... her sis being friendly with the enemy!! }:)

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Submitted by Synaesthete on Wed, 09/08/2010 - 3:47pm

-shrug- It doesn't sound like your intentions were snarky. You get along with her sister, it was her birthday, you left her a quick "Happy Birthday!" message. People on FB wish each other happy birthday even when they don't talk the rest of the year, in my experience. Wink I wouldn't sweat it.

I'm sure if something comes up her sister will handle it.

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Submitted by disneymom78 on Wed, 09/08/2010 - 4:08pm

Nah, you are fine. The BM will have to get over it. Post-away, just know she will see it and if there isn't ANYTHING you don't want the BM to get wind of watch what you post.

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Submitted by Nicoli on Wed, 09/08/2010 - 4:59pm

You have every right to befriend or defriend whom you so choose. Of course having good gut instincts on who to trust is another matter altogether. Facebook can be wonderfull or harmfull, its up to you, and your privacy settings... }:)