From the Mouths of Babes...
DH is living an hour away, divorce judgement is submitted and waiting for judge's signature and my life has improved 100%! I've been out with my girlfriends almost every night this week and I already have a new man interested in me:) Not imterested in any new men, but its always nice to get the attention.
I still love to hear about BM's rapid decline - this story made my day:) DH called me to set up a time to come get some furniture that he left and told me that BM is getting free counseling services to learn how to handle SS13. Apparently, they have been meeting in a park once a week and DH agreed to go to support SS13. SS13 and BM were at each other's throats the entire hour and SS13 and the horrible nephew told BM and the counslor that 1) BM does nothing but yell and scream at them, 2) SS13 doesn't want to live with her anymore, 3) BM is miserable and unhappy and taking it out on him, 4) its her own fault that she doesn't have money - there is LoTS she could do to address that and 5) she always has money for booze and cigarettes. LOL!! I love it - sounds like BM could barely contain herself the entire time and looked CRAZY. She complained non-stop about the condition of her house and that she couldn't "co-parent" with DH because he had blocked her from his phone. After DH explained all the reasons she was blocked, even the counselor agreed that DH shouldn't remove the block.
Oh - and BM's latest attempt to get SS13 on even more medication failed miserably. The psychiatrist told here that SS13 is NOT bipolar, should never have been medicated like he was and that he wouldn't give him anything except xanex for occasional anxiety. I guess BM will have to look at her own piss poor parenting skills or stay miserable with a kid who has zero respect for her and calls her names 24/7. KARMA!!!
Good for you, Red! Have some
Good for you, Red! Have some fun girl.
BM just wants the kid on medication so she doesn't have to deal with his bad behavior, which is all that it is, bad behavior.
Sometimes it is SO hard to
Sometimes it is SO hard to leave but once you do it is just a relief. btdt
Have a great life!